I've been wondering for awhile. If I have an Se role or am I Se dominant.

I'm pretty confused because I have friends suggesting ESFp, INFj, ISFj, ENFp, INTp, ISTp.

Though I feel most comfortable with ENFp, it has caused me to also consider ESFp. The others I feel are less likely, especially the rational types. I'm curious about what the forum thinks. Hopefully I'll see some results despite me not being as active as certain members.

I pretty much doubt I'm beta, though I think the NF club fits me very well.

One thing friends say about me is that I dislike being told what to do, that I'd much rather tell people what to do. But my opinion is that... Yes. I hate people ordering me around, however, at work, when I'm getting others to do what I want, I do not make it so obvious. It's kinda like I ask them their opinion, and I judge how close we are. And I tell them what to do that I think is the best for their role.

I'm not sure what this points to. Questions are welcome.