In my youth I was always the nice guy. But coming here to college seems to have brought out my general asshole nature, in that I find it much easier to be harsher and colder to people. Do you know what brings this out in LSEs?
I think being at home provided me with a more inherent form of stability that I like. Or at least having steady solid relations with some people. My family has changed a lot since my youth time, everyone has gone their separate ways now. So I suppose one possible lead is that the ability to be a nice guy is related to Fi confidence, or having a stable core of "real relationships"
When i have that it is a lot easier to be a generally nice guy.
Does that make sense?