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    From a males perspective, and knowing what males say to each other, it seems like we are more unsure of having any chances, rather than feeling like we "can't handle it" or "we're not interested". The reactions that the two friends that now are with the ENTJ women received when they communicated that the girl had hit on them were on the line of "WTF LUCKY BASTARD DIE", and the friends were like "LoL I actually thought she was joking and messing with me at first".
    Does this mean that it's impossible to ask an ENTj girl out? Is the only recourse, simply to wait that hopefully she'll ask you out? Am I doomed never to go out with an ENTj?
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    Hmmmmm...if I spotted one that interested me, I'd make sure to put myself in the same area as them (get-together/work/wuteva) so I am in their scope. I'd introduce myself on friend terms, and proceed to ask them about themselves. The next step depends on what happens after that, you just wing it. If it is sucessful and they actually want to continue talking with you, you actually MAY have a chance. Challenge them with more conversation, until you have their full attention (ideally this is how it would go, of course some ENTj would just plain not be interested or not work this way)

    Then maybe I'd roll off somewhere different, leaving things on good terms, so next time mayb HE/SHE will approach me, and who knows what could happen then... :wink:


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    The best way to ask an ENTj woman out is to whip out ur jonhson and say "I want u".

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    bust out the willy and be like "lol have some wang"

    entjs love this

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    Actually, my post was meant to say that we (males) may be less inclined to ask them out. This also means that since they're not used to, they probably are more open to invitations.
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    yeah. i mean, really, just ask her out. its not like the entj will snap ur neck in half.

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    I'd say...

    Get her to talk about herself a lot. When she won't stop talking if you're around, and tends to speak with enthusiasm, and is very open about personal things... chances are good she'll want to spend more time with you. At that point try to make plans with her, but I wouldn't make it obvious that you're trying to hook up with her. Let her try to initiate a relationship first. The key words are "try to". When she does this, respond quickly. Once you're past that first stage, things will be a lot easier, PROVIDED you talk to her about the status of the relationship and once you have an idea what she wants, simply tell her in a very clear (but not dramatic or drawn out) how things are.

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    Yeah, any display of anything that could be interpreted as indecisiveness after she attempts to hit on you will generally result in her deciding you're not worth the effort.
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    I suppose it depends on how attached you already are. If there isn't already much of an attachment, it seems the best thing to do in a situation like that to protect ourselves from the frustration that you spoke of is pull back.
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    As she's a victim - does that mean she's less inclined to be proactive in establishing a relationship?
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    She'll be more likely to be proactive in establishing contact, but nervous as to whether there is a relationship or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_maguoo
    As she's a victim - does that mean she's less inclined to be proactive in establishing a relationship?
    What Expat said. Plus, I think it's important to note that you'll need to be quick to respond to cues... if it seems like she set things up for a kiss, kiss her. That sort of thing. You're the one who will actually take things to the next level, but don't do so until she's given cues that it's time (this cues can sometimes be cryptic or subtle though... lol).
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    Quote Originally Posted by discojoe
    The best way to ask an ENTj woman out is to whip out ur jonhson and say "I want u".
    OMG THX I'll try this the next time!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_maguoo
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG

    From a males perspective, and knowing what males say to each other, it seems like we are more unsure of having any chances, rather than feeling like we "can't handle it" or "we're not interested". The reactions that the two friends that now are with the ENTJ women received when they communicated that the girl had hit on them were on the line of "WTF LUCKY BASTARD DIE", and the friends were like "LoL I actually thought she was joking and messing with me at first".
    Does this mean that it's impossible to ask an ENTj girl out? Is the only recourse, simply to wait that hopefully she'll ask you out? Am I doomed never to go out with an ENTj?
    You should have more self-respect. Stop acting as if this girl is the be all and end all of your existence. Most women find that quality unattractive.
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    i find lack of self-respect unattractive period.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HollywoodWanderer
    Quote Originally Posted by mr_maguoo
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG

    From a males perspective, and knowing what males say to each other, it seems like we are more unsure of having any chances, rather than feeling like we "can't handle it" or "we're not interested". The reactions that the two friends that now are with the ENTJ women received when they communicated that the girl had hit on them were on the line of "WTF LUCKY BASTARD DIE", and the friends were like "LoL I actually thought she was joking and messing with me at first".
    Does this mean that it's impossible to ask an ENTj girl out? Is the only recourse, simply to wait that hopefully she'll ask you out? Am I doomed never to go out with an ENTj?
    You should have more self-respect. Stop acting as if this girl is the be all and end all of your existence. Most women find that quality unattractive.
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