My husband claims to be submissive to me! ha. Do other ESFjs feel this way in relationships? Or maybe it's just because I'm his supervisor. This was the conversation (regarding our garden):
Him: I love those cannas - though I'd like a few of a different color mixed in (if you don't, then strike that) - maybe we could trade with someone. Thanks for doing that - you are the gardener extraordinaire.
Me: I don't think I agree with the different colored cannas. But we could certainly add different colors elsewhere such as the window boxes and others in the garden. What color do you want?
Him: A darker color of leaf - but I'll defer to you - really, I will. I'm submissive, you know, and just want to get along
Typical of ESFjs or just typical of supervisory relations? (he's this way about nearly everything, btw)