yomama
Type that seem to romantically work for you.
yomama
Last edited by betterthandead; 08-02-2008 at 03:55 PM.
I'm a Male ENTp
female- ENFp, ISTp....maybe, ESTj, INFj, ENTj, ESFp, INTp... maybe, INFp, ENFj, ESTp, ISTj...maybe, ENTp.... maybe, ISFp, ESFj, INTj.....maybe.
Suomea
I don't think im interested in male types.
Female: INFp, ISFp, ESTp, ENFj, ENTp, ESFp
Most J's can go fuck themselves, but I'm a glutton for ENFj punishment.
And I definitely like Extroverted girls better. It's just that they don't know when to shut the fuck up.
INFP, ENTP, ENFP, ESFP.
I don't think I get along with any J types either.
ESFp, ISFj
not sure why this is in delta. moving elsewhere.
6w5 sx
model Φ: -+0
sloan - rcuei
implied, you didn't answer the q!
ok i'm gonna say who i've actually had relationships with since i've been alive so long
entp, enfj, esfj, infp, estp, infp.
i probably attracted to istp's as well, at least in theory, since i don't know many in my life that are my age right now. i could see being attracted to isfp's as well, but i don't think i know many and there are not many male ones left at this stage who aren't married.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
old istp's are cranks!
I'm a female LIE.
My serious relationships have been with an ESI, LSE, LSI, LII, and ESI. Casual relationships include a SEE, LSE, and some others I haven't thought to type (it seems like I have a hard time getting serious with irrational types though). My attractions are generally to IJ's, occasionally EP's or EJ's (I was never really attracted to the LSE I was with though... it just sort of happened when I was really depressed).
female IEI here.
Had relationships with males: SLI, IEI, SEI. Currently married for 13 years to ESE.
IEI-Fe 4w3
The type of personalities of women I've observed to be the most appealing in my experience are:
ESTj LSE
ENFp IEE
ISTp SLI
ISFp SEI
ENTp ILE
ENTj LIE
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
I'm a male INTp and assuming I understand the question correctly, I've been with a female INFj in the past (that never really got past the casual stage, we were only together for 3 months) and am currently in a long-distance relationship with a female ESFp.
ILI (Indescribable Lovemaking Inc.)
5w4 so/sx
"IP temperament! Because today's concerns are tomorrow's indifferences!"
Lord Fnorgle's Domain - A slowly growing collection of music, poetry and literature.
Stickam music performances
INFP, ISFJ, nothing else
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
types that seem to romantically work for me?
none.
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
or ALL
XXXx types.
because i haven't successfully romantically dated a type yet!Originally Posted by LokiVanguard
6w5 sx
model Φ: -+0
sloan - rcuei
Oh im sorry, hehe.. I thought the question was INTERESTED IN, not SUCCESSFULLY DATING... since "Dated" means it didnt turn out well, right?
I've only dated ESFj's. They're a pain in the ass.
Me: Female ENFp
Most successful relationship so far is with an ENTp. The previous two (ENFj, ESTp) were disastrous.
I find IxTps attractive and would probably work out best. Relationships with ISTps are very comfortable, but I haven't met one that I'm interested in yet.
Relationships with IxFps are alright, but they don't go very far.
Mm. ENTps can be very attractive.
INTp
sx/sp
well, i interpreted "what types work for you" as in some sort of "oh, i really really jive with this one!" sense. i'm interpreting anyone who can get along with me as totally successful and if they were still dating me then THAT would be a success. you're probably right, though.
i dated one ESFj male and surprisingly it was one of my more "successful" relationships in terms of length. but i agree on the pain in the ass thing.
6w5 sx
model Φ: -+0
sloan - rcuei
uh don't really get it.. types that seem to work? none, but most likely ESFj, ISFp, INFj, maybe ISxj if they were accepting subtype?? and an Uber Fe INFp, or an exceedingly mature and cool ENTp... maybe.
EDIT: now that the rules are clearer, I wouldn't consider any of my romantic encounters successful. drat
I am a INTj...and I prefer ESFjs, ISFps, ESTjs, ISTps and INFjs...at least so far :wink:.
Yeah you guys are hot too......: )
Suomea
I don't have much relationship experience... however, I used to go for people who were "like me," totally under-appreciating people who are unlike me. Now that seems to be a totally illogical approach in some ways. Like my last relationship, we sat around and did nothing a lot because neither of us were good at motivating ourselves...So unhelpful.
I've been think ST may work the best with me... but I'll be more specific and spout nonsense... ESTp, ESFp, ISTp... and I have started blanking.
Christ just sitting around? Hope you guys didnt sniff glue or anything.
We weren't stupid! Just ineffective!
haha, that stuff is nice and all, during relaxation time, but too much relaxation time and i feel like going snowboarding or in extreme cases sky diving. Mix it up a bit. i guess thats why you two are no more eh?
oh, many reasons, but this contributes... oh yeah, and if we did anything physical he would criticize me for not doing well enough quickly enough... I do not like that at all...
This is interesting. So you think that an relationship between identical types or lookalikes wouldn't be the best. I wonder about that. I like what Rick says on his site about I-I relationships and how they kind of end up living in their own little worlds. I'll bet that would happen. But I sometimes wonder if that might be nice now and then. I know how I relate to my dad (who is ISFp). It's very comfortable just sitting around relaxing, doing nothing, making some funny comment now and then. I wonder if it would get boring after awhile despite the good level of understanding.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Christ, how are you supposed to encourage people to stick with stuff if you critique every single move they make, especially as beginners? We were ALL beginners at some point...oh, many reasons, but this contributes... oh yeah, and if we did anything physical he would criticize me for not doing well enough quickly enough... I do not like that at all...
I don't get that either, especially when you're in a relationship with the person.Christ, how are you supposed to encourage people to stick with stuff if you critique every single move they make, especially as beginners? We were ALL beginners at some point...oh, many reasons, but this contributes... oh yeah, and if we did anything physical he would criticize me for not doing well enough quickly enough... I do not like that at all...
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Exactly what I was thinking when I read that. Sheesh, my husband and I were kind of pathetic in the beginning. But after lots of practice, pretty great now, LOLChrist, how are you supposed to encourage people to stick with stuff if you critique every single move they make, especially as beginners? We were ALL beginners at some point...oh, many reasons, but this contributes... oh yeah, and if we did anything physical he would criticize me for not doing well enough quickly enough... I do not like that at all...
IEI-Fe 4w3
I have dated SEI, SLI. Both relationships worked reasonably well for about 2 years and then fell apart. I have had a couple of weird pseudo relationships with LSE. . . These felt the best but logistically would have never worked out. : (
EII 4w5
so/sx (?)
Huummmm, other Ep's are exciting romantically.
I think I've dated an ISFp, possibly an ENFp, an ISTp, an ISFj, and an ENTp.
None of them hardly mature relationships, besides the ENTp. And even still...we're only 19 and 21 so I'm sure we havn't reached a very high level of maturity yet. I think I'm ahead of him though, on the emotional maturity scale
Types I THINK I'd get along with romantically:
(not in specific order)
Possible:
INTp
ISTp
ENTp
ESTp
ESFp
ENFp (ehhh)
ENTj (this sounds hot to me for some reason
ISTj (maybehhh)
INFp (maybehhh)
Probably never lol:
ISFp (eh)
INFj
ESTj
INTj
ENFj
ESFj
I keep open-minded about any potential relationship though. Friend or otherwise, regardless of socionics type.
SEE Unknown Subtype
6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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In Terms of Women
Relationship Prospects......... ESFJ, ISFP, INFP, ISTP, ESFP, INTJ
Favourable ........................ ENTJ, ESTP, ENFJ
Of Interest (but risky)......... ISTJ, ESTJ
Stay Clear ....................... ISFJ, ENTP, ENFP, INTP, INFJ
For men its different. I can get along with most types no problem but sometimes i find ESTP (and occasionally ISFJ) a bit hard to take.
ILE
haha so many people have been mentioning their love for ESFp's
soooo idk why but I've havd a few long-term relationships with INFj's- but I've learned to stay away from them... waaaaayyyyy too muchgoing on between the two of us.
ESTj's i like but their so concerned with protecting me that i dont get to have my fun
ESTp's are fun... but i think he described it best when because of ours every day is like a new day when we see each other. Too similar for my taste.
INFp's i like a lot... I would def be down...
ESFj's, ENFj's, INTj's, ENFp's and ISTj's- you would have to murder me first.
INTp's... obvi :wink: the only thing that bothers me about them is that they have such a fear of being held down/back that they have issues committingi guess im the same way but c'mon guys we're perfect for eachother!
ISTp's- maybe, maybe not
ENTj's- yeah, but they're kinda scary to me sometimes
ISFj's- nooo too similar to me
ENTp's i probably would be open-minded to trying...
ISFp's uhh idk maybe...
ESFp- ahhhhh that might end up bad for the both of us
ESFp-Fi sub
6w7 sx/so/sp
You're more than welcome to, I think the thinking parts.
Too muchsoooo idk why but I've havd a few long-term relationships with INFj's- but I've learned to stay away from them... waaaaayyyyy too much
ESTj's i like but their so concerned with protecting me that i dont get to have my fun Confused
I sort of feel the same way about ESFps, though from my perspective. You guys can have a cool serious/loyal side, but, any chemistry is only superficial.
....
A ton of Fi and someone who doesn't mind me protecting them? Sounds great to me.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
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