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    Why is that I get infuriated and want to shake awake those who speak with a quiet, barely perceptible vocie and who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?

    Don't tell me this isn't type-related; I know it is. There's a type that annoys me; it's this one, and I want to know what it is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    What's more unfortunate is your relentless reliance upon generalizations aimed at an entire group of people instead of the actual source of your frustration just to get your point across (which in the end is an ineffective method for working out your original problem in the first place). Intolerance only breeds ignorance.
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    Well he could be describing an INFp, or ISTp...probably an Ip anyhow.
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    Because you're an hardass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Because you're an hardass.
    lol

    Sounds like an Ne type, I guess...

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    Not much info to work with but I'd say Ni ego, and likely Ip.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    Why is that I get infuriated and want to shake awake those who speak with a quiet, barely perceptible vocie and who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?

    Don't tell me this isn't type-related; I know it is. There's a type that annoys me; it's this one, and I want to know what it is.
    your dual, lol, so just go and shake them awake instead of getting infuriated

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    Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion
    Well he could be describing an INFp, or ISTp...probably an Ip anyhow.
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    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    Maybe they're just ignoring you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aka-kitsune
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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    Maybe they're just ignoring you.
    they're probably equally frustrated/annoyed at him for interupting their spacing out (I know I usually am in those situations)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
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    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    So don't ask them a question. What's the problem?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    Maybe they're just ignoring you.
    they're probably equally frustrated/annoyed at him for interupting their spacing out (I know I usually am in those situations)
    Yep. I don't particularly like anyone to suddenly interrupt my reveries either. Certainly they're more pleasant to contemplate than those people who are constantly asking questions. :wink:
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    I hate this kind of person as well. Wishy-washy is definitely not something I can stand in anyone... and the only thing that this statement really shows for Ezra's type is that he values / over /


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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux
    I hate this kind of person as well. Wishy-washy is definitely not something I can stand in anyone... and the only thing that this statement really shows for Ezra's type is that he values / over /
    You know, it could just be that Ezra sees certain people as wishy-washy. I can't stand it when people are *too* agreeable. Have an opinion, dammit!

    But just "not answering questions" doesn't indicate wishy-washy. Sometimes giving limited information is my default passive-aggressive response.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux
    I hate this kind of person as well. Wishy-washy is definitely not something I can stand in anyone... and the only thing that this statement really shows for Ezra's type is that he values / over /
    What about an INFp?

    I do not "like" people like that either. But saying it is an Se>Si thing, can you really say that legitimately?

    Consider the INFp - ESTj dichotomy: one of them is to be constantly busy with work and doing productive things, the other is its opposite.


    IME, ISFp,INFp, INTp, ISTp all fit into this situation mostly.
    But any type can. I would say it is primarily a human issue, that is, a matter of motivation and direction and mental physical emotional health, etc.


    What to be more specific?
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    My INFj sister and I have both been called "wishy-washy" by Se types. But other types might consider different people to be wishy-washy. (there's an example of wishy-washiness right there!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
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    who mooch around all day doing fuck all, all with a wishy-washy demeanour?.
    Can you be more specific as to what this means?
    Basically, they just go with the flow and have their head in the clouds. It's people who when you ask a question, they either didn't hear or are off somewhere else. It's frustrating.
    Whoa... you wouldn't like me very much.

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    BEING ANNOYED AT LAZYMEN

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    I'm okay with it now. It no longer bothers me. I am simply an impatient and intolerant person.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    ME AND MY RUNNING GAGS

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    I'm okay with it now. It no longer bothers me. I am simply an impatient and intolerant person.
    ..don't forget moody!

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    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand
    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra
    I'm okay with it now. It no longer bothers me. I am simply an impatient and intolerant person.
    ..don't forget moody!
    and short

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    And narcissistic.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    You forgot self-effacing.

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    He doesn't even give good blowjobs, I know for sure...

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    Damn Fabio, how many times?
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Well, he hasn't came yet, so I think you're in for the long haul...

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    wishy washy is what i think of someone who's not Ti/Fe-- these people don't need opinions behind the information to feel satisfied as much as Ti/Fe people. Having head in the clouds is something an Se type might think of an Ne type. Or, not making a decision right away could be an Se type's problem with an Ne type. Ezra's post first reminded me of an Se seeking type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
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    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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    Sounds like you're annoyed by INFp's.

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    I've come across a lot of Se types getting annoyed at Ni behaviour (which is what erza looks like hes decribing to me). And one ISFp getting annoyed at Ne behaviour (and sometimes Ti).

    Fi types are known for disliking uncompassionate impersonal mechanicalism (it is a word now) or Te.

    So I'm starting to think that types can (have a high probablilty) of disliking some things about their dual seeking function.

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    Quote Originally Posted by electric
    So I'm starting to think that types can (have a high probablilty) of disliking some things about their dual seeking function.
    socionics.com explains it like this:
    "Relations of Duality also go through several stages. The first stage sometimes can be really tense. It is like a new engine that requires a "run in" first. If relations crumble it normally happens in the first stage. The more stages completed by Duals the more unbreakable their relationship."

    Thus your initial reaction to your dual seeking function is perhaps quite critical (unless you have previously experienced a positive duality experience). It might seem at first like your dual seeking function competes with your leading function (e.g. Se focus on here and now, Ni focus on past and future). It might take some time for the inexperienced to understand how these functions complement each other (e.g. it is beneficial to regard all three: past, here and now, and future at the same time which would require Se and Ni type cooperating with each other).

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    I swear you could just do that with any type though.
    Ideas don't determine who's right. Power determines who's right. And I have the power. So I'm right.

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