As someone who is about to marry someone who is probably an SLE (), I would say that type matters far far less than circumstances. I would keep an eye on the divorce things and let the feeling cards fall where they fall.
As someone who is about to marry someone who is probably an SLE (), I would say that type matters far far less than circumstances. I would keep an eye on the divorce things and let the feeling cards fall where they fall.
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage.”
― Anais Nin
Yeah. I'm not sure if I can handle dating someone who has been married before. I guess because I feel like everything in life, for him, has already been "done." He's had all the everyday experiences that being married entailed, he's had kids (and they're practically grown), he's achieved a level of intimacy with someone that I still can't even fathom having... and for me that's all new. I'm such a kid in comparison. When he was my age, he had a 5 year old and a baby. Good Lord.
And then I do stupid stuff like this: this morning I txted him and asked if he was still interested in having me visit wknd after this... Then about an hour later (after no reply) I remembered what today is: the one year anniversary of his split... FUCK. That was about as insensitive as it gets. I'm the last person he wants pestering him today. Why do I have to be so damn forgetful? BLAH.
IEE
That honestly doesn't sound too insensitive to me. I suppose it is if he's the kind of person that dwells on the past.
IEE Ne Creative Type
Some and role lovin too. () I too...
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