Now I have a little situation where I'm confused about what traits would actually constitute a person being dual seeking vs. PoLR - it's mainly to due with the fact that I can not distinguish between LII or ILI for someone I know because they seem to have traits of both, but I am leaning heavily towards ILI for the time being.
Are these signs of PoLR or weakness and needing it? The lines seem to be blurred.
+ Coming off as very passive to the point of being weak
+ Totally unable to exert authority over others and seeming to be annoyed of others who do demonstrate authority.
+ Not knowing how to be physical, take control of the physical environment
+ Submitting to others willpower (wimpiness)
+ Easily led, easily controlled
+ Never wanting to thwart authority, very submissive b/c of fear of getting in trouble
... This person has all these traits but some seem obviously PoLR-like while others seem Dual seeking, because in all other respects creative seems to fit and a valuing of over is extremely blurred ... I would just like to know what others think would be major clues on whether a person is dual seeking or PoLR
Also another huge point - Someone who rarely, if ever shows negative emotions - never getting angry, etc. It almost seems like they are robotic. Is this more a trait of ILIs or LIIs? I would think ILIs because of the Fe PoLR but ... hmm. My point is that I see dual seeking as something different ... like I would think ILIs would somehow value aggression and anger in a way, that I see a lot of IEIs liking. Or am I totally wrong in my assumptions and ILIs actually shy away from showing anger/aggression?