I tend to find that INTjs lack the capacity to feel complete sadness or anguish about things. I think this is why they make good partners for ESFjs because they are able to sit through one of their rantings about how things aren't the way they should be. I remember going to funerals and such and feeling out of place a lot, like everyone else there was sad but I lacked the capacity to feel so. INTjs please reply.