Originally Posted by
Elwood
I took to reading at a very rapid pace at an early age. When reading, everything you need to know is right there in the text and you can read it again and again if necessary, you don't have to ask "what?" if you don't understand what is being said. It is a very literal form of speaking that I understand far better than verbal communication. When I watch movies I usually turn on subtitles because I tend to understand everything that's going on in a much clearer and more organized manner. I guess the best way to describe verbal communication for me is that I have to translate everything that goes back and forth. I have to figure out what this person is saying and then figure out how to get my thoughts across to this person so that they understand what I'm trying to say, which I find to be a very tedious task, even with my INTJ friend sometimes.
I know exactly what you mean, and was just thinking about this the other day. I definitely like text better for those reasons - I'm much more quick at gathering what people are saying over IM, for instance, than in person. (I tend to be much more quick-witted, too, because I spend less time trying to understand what you just said and thus have more time to consider my answer.) Also, in person I hate asking "What?" repeatedly, so if I can't figure out what you're saying after the third time I'll usually give up and live in ignorance.
My hearing isn't the best for various reasons. I think part of it is lately I've been communicating by text more than by speech, so I might have gotten a lazy ear so to speak. Maybe part of it is the sheer amounts of music I listen to, but I feel like if I practiced I could get good at verbal conversation, too. Not sure.
I also don't like how verbal conversation doesn't have a backspace key - sometimes I start saying something one way and realize another way would illustrate my point better, but my tongue is still flapping and I end up spewing some gobbledy**** that is a combination of both ways to word it, so no one understands.