I just have this one ESFp friend..... and we hooked up once...... and since then it seems like she can never turn her gameplaying off and be serious anymore. Aggravates the hell out of me. I don't think either of us want something... but the whole time now it just seems like she's playing a game. Could be an ESTp but I'm just wondering..... after an ESFp hooks up with someone does the gameplaying ever stop? We were friends for a number of years before then so it's not a friendship I just want to end.