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    Default Communication styles - Sincere, Businesslike, Careful, Childlike

    IxFx
    Passively searching for feelings in people. Helpful and cooperative. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of warm gestures.

    ExTx
    Actively expects people to show their feelings. Business-like. Dialogue is understood as business cooperation.

    IxTx
    Passively expects people to show their feelings. Dispassionate. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of missing information (of an explanatory character).

    ExFx
    Actively searching for feelings in people. Emotionally expressive. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of emotions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    IxTx
    Passively expects people to show their feelings. Dispassionate.
    Yes! Unless I have a desire, then I can't hold my passion and I communicate it.

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    You have to correct for emotion-creating and construct-creating. Then for Fe preference, or Fi preference. Then for Se preference, or Si preference.

    Basically, you end up with INFp-Fe and ENTj-Ni as most emotionally expressive, and ISTp-Si and INFj-Fi as least emotionally expressive. Something like this. In my experience. More or less.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    IxFx Passively searching for feelings in people. Helpful and cooperative. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of warm gestures.
    Conditionally.

    I definitely search for feelings in people, but am definitely not always "helpful and cooperative". I must feel positively toward a person/situation to be helpful and cooperative, as this indicates a significant investment of myself. I am not inclined that way naturally; it's rather dependent on personal considerations.
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    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
    Which is the second sentence?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
    Which is the second sentence?
    the one that comes after the first and before the third

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    ExTx
    Actively expects people to show their feelings. Business-like. Dialogue is understood as business cooperation.
    I would have to say a lot of times, my ulterior motive in dialog provoke a emotional response from others, because then I can figure out what they really "want". I am usually very receptive when people come to me with what they really want.
    yes i would agree with this. people have to be willing to be pretty assertive with me or things won't happen. it's easier for me to understand what other people want when i don't have to try to tune in to too much subtlety.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
    Which is the second sentence?
    The Helpful and cooperative\Business-like\Dispassionate\Emotionally expressive bit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
    Which is the second sentence?
    The Helpful and cooperative\Business-like\Dispassionate\Emotionally expressive bit.
    Which one fits you the best out of all 4?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I relate to the first bit of IxFx the best, and then I find it difficult to decide between IxFx and IxTx . The second sentence is difficult for me to decide - I can be all of those things.
    Which is the second sentence?
    The Helpful and cooperative\Business-like\Dispassionate\Emotionally expressive bit.
    Which one fits you the best out of all 4?
    I really can't decide. I suppose I'm dispassionate more than emotionally expressive - but that doesn't seem right.
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    Updated descriptions

    IxFx
    Passively searching for feelings in people. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of warm gestures.

    ExTx
    Actively expects people to show their feelings. Business-like. Dialogue is understood as business cooperation.

    IxTx
    Passively expects people to show their feelings. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of missing information (of an explanatory character).

    ExFx
    Actively searching for feelings in people. Emotionally expressive. Dialogue is understood as an exchange of emotions.

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    I can understand how an ISTj can be passionate.

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    I can't decide between these two parts...I find them both problematic.


    IxFx
    Dialogue is understood as an exchange of warm gestures.


    IxTx
    Dialogue is understood as an exchange of missing information (of an explanatory character).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I can't decide between these two parts...I find them both problematic.


    IxFx
    Dialogue is understood as an exchange of warm gestures.


    IxTx
    Dialogue is understood as an exchange of missing information (of an explanatory character).
    Which do you seek to do more:
    - give and receive warm gestures
    - give and receive missing information (of an explanatory character)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Which do you seek to do more:
    - give and receive warm gestures
    - give and receive missing information (of an explanatory character)
    I hope to give good advice\information in a warm way...I only really receive infomation from a person in order to help them...but I have to be fairly warm in order that they give me the information I need to help them. So, I find it difficult to decide.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I only really receive infomation from a person in order to help them
    So you don't receive information for your own sake to help yourself?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elzo
    Quote Originally Posted by Subterranean
    I only really receive infomation from a person in order to help them
    So you don't receive information for your own sake to help yourself?
    Well, I suppose I find it pleasing to a certain degree - and possibly, hearing about other peoples' experiences gives me extra material to work with - I might see new possibilties, or some might dry up - I suppose I could use this material for myself, but I don't really need to.
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