Duality makes life easier
Is that really what it boils down to?
I know someone made a comment like this months ago on the forum, "Find your dual or go insane". But it seems very true for me. I am realizing how.... ..... much more difficult it is to be around other people, and knowing your dual seems like it spoils you so much. I really wonder about being with any other type.
Do other people feel this way?
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~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
pretty muchBe with your dual or go insane?
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~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
lol
hey, it worked for me (finding my dual in this forum, that is)
Joy, you found your dual on the forum? Wow!
How's life before and after duals?
No. Perhaps it would be best to say "find your dual or be disappointed or discontented," but not insane. Insane is too strong of a word.
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
It seems a major part of life and living, and "pursuing happiness" is finding people you can live with peacefully (or whatever adjective is most appealing to you). Duals are the best for that, IME.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Yeah, and until we actually met in person we thought we were identicals.Originally Posted by elle
Well... I was in an extremely stressful part of my life for a few years before we met. (Contrary relations suck.) Now things are great, but I'm still not quite back to "me" yet (as evidenced by my still being here). I'm getting there though.How's life before and after duals?
Yeah. I once said "find your dual or die trying" or something to that effect, but I was half joking.
I do think you can fulfill your 5th and 6th functions without being with your dual, but being with your dual is more efficient, effective, and satisfying (in my experience).
theoretically i figure ill have one in my life eventually...in some form or another. or just that one person that makes you think, "if i do have a dual, it's probably someone like this"
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6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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I don't think it's necessary to find one's dual as in another person... though that of course would hypothetically be nice. The dual I think is present inside oneself... it is the other side to someone, strong in all the functions you are weak in; weak in all the functions you are strong in. I sort of view the dual as the "recessive" part of my own personality... These thoughts may change.
I disagree.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
And why do you disagree?
(I wasn't disagreeing with you, just with the thread starter) The dual is generally necessary to "straighten things out" in one's own life, but it's not necessary for happiness. Actually...for positivists, it's not necessary for happiness, but it's necessary to straighten things out, whereas for negativists, the opposite is true.And why do you disagree?
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
I was still curious.
You won't go insane without your dual. Don't be silly.
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without your dual your penis eventually falls off and your vagina dries up and seals shut... Gulenko proved it!
The horror. The horror.
I saw a snail crawling on the edge of a straight razor -- that is my dream, my nightmare.
, LIE, ENTj logical subtype, 8w9 sx/sp
Re: The horror. The horror.
That wouldn't have been Occam's Razor by any chance?
Johari Box"Alpha Quadra subforum. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. We must be cautious." ~Obi-Wan Kenobi
You won't go insane without your dual. Don't be silly.
(I also agree with this... as I stated, I'm half joking when I say stuff like that.)
i've been noticing that by the time dual couples get old they are totally interdependent with one another. to the point that when one of them dies, the other one follows shortly thereafter. they simply cannot live with out the other one. partners in non-dual couples can cope with the death of their partner better.
i don't think duality is an absolute must in a romantic relationship esp if you have other dual relations in your life. it is harder work with a nondual partner, but if you can identify the source of the communication problem, then the problem is at least halfway solved. like with infp man - sometimes it's Ne vs Ni way of looking at things. it hasn't been an absence of dual seeking yet though.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
That which does not kill you makes you stronger.
If you survive a non-dual partner, you survive anything.
that also has to do with endorphins
@#%$%@!!!that also has to do with endorphins
to a point...depends on which relation. if i should survive a conflict relation to death then i agree...but a semi dual or illusionary? this could be quite good also.That which does not kill you makes you stronger.
If you survive a non-dual partner, you survive anything.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
What if you're with your dual and you're still insane?
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
I miss UDPwhat have you done with him courage?
/edit... lol he edited himself out
Why do you miss him?
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
you used to be alot more fun and less abrasive when you were UDP... It's like you're trying too hard lately or something. No offense meant or anything, that's just how I perceive it *shrugs*
How selfish of you, BG. UDP is moving up and making changes in life; he has no time for being fun! Play time is over; life is serious business!
Whenever I read the name "Courage" for some reason I think of Courage the cowardly dog. It's a horrible association as it is unfitting and that show a very unpleasant thing that I'd prefer not to be reminded of.
Just thought I'd share.
Trying too hard? To do what, leave some sort of impression on you? Actually its quite the opposite. I have a lot more important things to be doing than make great efforts to put on a certain image to the forum.you used to be alot more fun and less abrasive when you were UDP... It's like you're trying too hard lately or something. *shrugs*
My seriousness is probably even more heightened than normal because I have so many things to do, and few people take things seriously as I do. A lot of alphas and Fe types seem to be commenting on this lately.
Guess what -
you know the countdown that was in my signature for so long? Summer is long gone. I am not here to have fun.
PS: However other people have been commenting on my disregard for Fe as of late, so I suppose it is something I need to monitor.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Those "laughing" emoticons are really getting annoying, too. Thanks for sharing, Joy.Whenever I read the name "Courage" for some reason I think of Courage the cowardly dog. It's a horrible association as it is unfitting and that show a very unpleasant thing that I'd prefer not to be reminded of.
Just thought I'd share. Laughing
Look, if you guys want my username changed, start a thread in anything goes and figure out what you want to change it to. I really don't care.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
*yawn* you're going to burn yourself out and have a breakdown by the end of the semester... good luck with that
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
loop, recursive: see recursive loop
recursive loop: see loop, recursive
thank God... I thought you were being totally serious here. It's good to see that there's still a sense of humor beneith all this new conviction you've found
What's the problem? Better happy living than long living
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
this is an odd response. why would you say that just because a couple people complained about your attitude? you do what you want, your name is what you want it. we hafta live with it. so we will until you decide you want it to be different again.
unlessss you don't give a fuck about usernames at all....so you are like, "guys, wtfever just do what you want im trying to have a serious time on the forum here" :wink:
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6w7 sx/so
[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
[21:29] hitta: and not dying
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