ENTjs acting like jerks - how can I get along with them?

[ENFPaaron]

this is a cry for help!!!
im an 18 year old enfp who has been having problems dealing w/ some entj girls in my classes in college who always act like assholes
im the kind of person that really likes to get along w/ everyone, but for some reason i cant seem to get past what feels like a "tough front" and it makes it hard for me to communicate,
example: whenever i try to talk to this particular girl she makes some retarded comment and the way she says it makes it feel like she's talking down to me, and i dont know why this is since i have never done anything to her...
just kinda wondering why this could be, if anyone has any suggestions about how to get an entj to not act like an asshole please help
(note: this is not a lovey dovey situation, i have no interest in starting up a relationship, i just wish i could talk to her in class w/o getting pissed off )
(note2: im not completely sure on the typing, just guessing based on my experiences w/ entj's)
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