I haven't really been able to find out anything good about ESFps... except that they can be friendly. Maybe I have just had bad experiences but they all just seem overly manipulative and seem to drop you for anyone slightly more interesting.
I have identified 2 or possibly 3 of them and I don't like any of them. There are 2 girls who I know (one is for sure ESFp but I am not as sure that the other is) but they seem to get together only the most fun/exciting/attractive people in a group and actively exclude anyone else who isn't inlcuding myself. It seems like all my friends who get sucked up in thier group get brainwashed and ignore everyone else or maybe just set the 2 girls needs as top priority. The guy ESFp I don't know too well but I have heard he is known to drop his friends wherever he is and go with the nearest girl.
So are all ESFps like this? What are the good traits of them? How do you break an ESFps hold on people?