Originally Posted by
crazedcat
Btw, you said be yourself is just a cliche.
I think that depends on what you think of as your true self.
Because alot of people would interpet that as "be honest about your desires". But I think the true self, is what you are when you have no desires.
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and are really quite shallow. Most of your chances in getting with them are determined by your external image. This in turn places a monumental burden on ILIs for maintaining a flawless external image, because SEEs will only settle for their shallow definition of perfection: their quest for the perfect Se
"[the INTp] likes strong people who know their way in life, who demand concessions: such people release him from the necessity to invent goals, while using methods invented by him"
Originally Posted by
crazed
And from this they don't pay much attention to you unless you blatently draw attention to yourself, like a personality whore. So it is very difficult, for an ILI to even come in contact with them, because it is directly against my nature to draw attention to myself.
"5.Unapproachable and thus desired. A girl-student by the name of Laima (The Politician) gave a good description of [the INTp] type when she tried to describe the hero of her dreams: 'He must be handsome and smart, with big and sad eyes, not talkative. He does not tell compliments, and by that he creates an impression of his inapproachability. He is taunted by myriads of problems, which, in my opinion are nothing to be bothered with. I am attracted by his sadness, seriousness, so I try to amuse him, to raise his spirits, to make him happy. If such a boy is present at a party, I wouldn't be bored.' This is a vivid description of this personality type, who is constant in his feelings, does not like adventures, and desires total dependence of his demanding partner."
Originally Posted by
crazedcat
One thing I object to about SEEs, and tell me if I'm incorrect in this: they do not have much loyalty
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And, they usually have boyfriends, and sleep around alot which is a turn off. they're usually those girls, who make out with their girlfriends when they get drunk, and talk about.. their friends, who you don't even know.
"6. Disappointment. Due to [the ESFp's] initiative and demanding nature he frequently feels disappointed with his loved ones: they turn out to be “not what they seemed to be”, not perceptive enough of his whims. The bottom line is that he needs a partner who is easy to adapt to without adapting at all (without changing his own nature). If such a partner is not nearby, he gets up to mischief in order to draw such a person’s attention."
http://socioniko.net/en/1.1.types/index.html (just one set of type descriptions among many, but by no means an outlier)
Originally Posted by
crazedcat
God, I wish we had different duals.
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Where is a place to find/meet SEEs-ESFps?
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). You could meet them at the clubs, but I would recommend trying to set yourself apart in other settings. I however do not recommend "being yourself" around SEE's. Developing relationships require effort and energy, even for a solitary, observant ILI. Yeah, clubby ILI's do exist- although they are usually involved with club-related activities as well ie. music, audio, deco, promotion, special events, etc. I could see myself going to more clubs and parties if I were ever to get a few month break from school or work again.
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