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    I feel like an awkward creep putting pictures of people I know up here without their knowledge, so limited time only for VI. Please no quoting, thanks.

    *edit*

    About him...

    He's a nice guy, though I still cant help but find him to be slightly irritating. He's rather musicale, and he's in a band. He likes to write lyrics, and he plays the guitar. He's really tall and lanky at 6ft 6, and that's the first thing you notice abut him. He seems to have a lot of nervous energy flowing through his body. He always seems very tense, and he talks fast. His voice often stutters nervously, like he can't relax. He's a very punctual organized person, and he likes to be on top of daily things, such as his band, his job, ect. He's friendly and somewhat outgoing. He said that when he first met me my quietness made him want to talk to me more, but it was also somewhat intimidating to him. He's very honest, and when he feels that you need to know something, he'll come right out and say it, even if it hurts you. He likes to eat a lot, and likes free meals where he can help himself to generous portions. I guess he's kind of greedy that way; he's also kind of greedy with money. He would often come over to my house to do his laundry. That upset me a lot, because I didn't like how he would always randomly come over and laze around the house. He made me feel uncomfortable.


    My INFp friend has a weird on-off relationship with him. They used to be in a band together, but he got on the INFp's nerves because he kept nagging the INFp about little things. The INFp was often late, and wanted to do things on his own time, but this stressed the guy out to no end because he had to have everything running precisely and perfectly. He told me that nobody that he's ever met has ever stressed him out as much as the INFp did. It all ended one day when he started nagging the INFp to hurry up, and the INFp blew up in his face and started breaking things... the INFp ended up threatening to physiclly harm him, so he backed off and left. Kicked the INFp out of his band.

    Now he tries to break the INFp up with his ISFj girlfriend just because he hates him. He'll spread rumors. He'll tell the ISFj things about the INFp which will break her heart, in order to make the INFp's life miserable. He even tells me things in an attempt to get me to hate the INFp. This often causes the INFp to want to "teach him a lesson" by inflicting physical harm on him. Then they will magically be friends again, but the cycle always goes on and on. The INFp obviously has a temper problem, and this guy seems to find that picking at it is amusing. He likes to stir up drama for the sake of laughs. He's 21 years old and I think that behavior is rather immature for a guy of his age. I think he's a little to old to be messing with 18 and 16 year olds, but that's just another thing about him. He only seems to hang out with younger people. I don't think he really has any friends his own age.
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    Wow, sounds kinda like a creeper to me Trying to hang on to his deteriorating youth. Honestly, I would say he is an IEE despite the fact that "punctual & organized" + some other controlling traits don't seem to fit but I know many IEEs and he has the same 'feel' as they do, and also the same tendency to try to hang out with people younger than them *cough* The fact that he doesn't have good relations with IEIs tells something about his type, you don't seem to like him too much either eh? I don't see him as any type of logical thinker though ... is he very emotionally expressive or anything? Do you see any signs of preference for a certain function(s)?

    I can't really tell anything else but that he's probably ExFx

    Crap, I just had a brainflash... ESFj! That must be it. It definitely explains the relations perfectly and also the EJ temperament that he seems to possess. Eek! Get him away! I'm pretty much sure this is his type. I've had plenty of experiences with unhealthy ESEs ... they do the gossip, backstabbing thing quite a lot if they don't like someone. I bet he felt very supervised by the IEI friend you have and your IEE mother is his beneficiary so Illusionary with your sister. His tense, talkative nature sounds very much ESE.


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    Fe, from the pictures. ESE could easily make sense.

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    Yeah I agree with ESFj. At first I thought he looked like his quasi-identical, but your description sounds like how a male ESFj would play out in real life.

    The INFp sounds unhealthy though. I don't think being INFp gives one the excuse for somebody being a lazy sack of shit and just laze around waiting for everybody else, and getting all prissy when somebody suggests you pull your own weight. Planning things was important to him, she should have gotten more balls and met him half-way.

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    +1 on the ESFj. My first instict from the picture was ENFj, but there are some things there that I would NEVER do. Things that practically go against my beliefs and world view. ...no, It's not what he does to the INFp. I could be very vindictive, if I hated someone. This very rarely happens and I make sure that everyone knows that I hate that person and I wouldn't spread untrue rumors... I would NEVER do my loundry at another person's house if there was even the most subtle hint that I wouldn't be welcome to do that. On principle, I have a very hard time accepting anyone's help and if someone helps me, I make sure I repay the favor. Like I would bring over some treat whenever I come over to do my laundry and I might even bring a book to keep myself out of everyone's way.
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    Thanks for the help everyone. I think ESFj is probably very likely. All this conflict makes perfect sense now!

    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettLux
    Crap, I just had a brainflash... ESFj! That must be it. It definitely explains the relations perfectly and also the EJ temperament that he seems to possess. Eek! Get him away! I'm pretty much sure this is his type. I've had plenty of experiences with unhealthy ESEs ... they do the gossip, backstabbing thing quite a lot if they don't like someone. I bet he felt very supervised by the IEI friend you have and your IEE mother is his beneficiary so Illusionary with your sister. His tense, talkative nature sounds very much ESE.
    Yes! ESFj would make a lot of sense if you look at the intertype relations. I don't know why I didn't see it before! I probably don't know enough ESFj males, I guess. I think EJ temperament is pretty obvious anyway. He get along very well with an ISFp girl I know also. She calls him the big brother that she's never had.

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves
    Yeah I agree with ESFj. At first I thought he looked like his quasi-identical, but your description sounds like how a male ESFj would play out in real life.

    The INFp sounds unhealthy though. I don't think being INFp gives one the excuse for somebody being a lazy sack of shit and just laze around waiting for everybody else, and getting all prissy when somebody suggests you pull your own weight. Planning things was important to him, she should have gotten more balls and met him half-way.
    Yeah. The INFp is very unhealthy. A lot of people have had problems with him, including myself. Most don't usually allow him get to them though, unlike this guy did. Sometimes I swear something crawled up his rear and died there. He's so stubborn, stupid, and lazy that he cant even finish high school... (he complains that he cant get up in the morning ). He makes all INFp's look bad. I feel kind of bad for him though, because he never used to be as difficult when he was younger. I think the fact that he was raised badly has had a big affect on his personal character. He's a great guy when he's not being so selfish and immature. You can only really give someone so much sympathy though.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kristiina
    +1 on the ESFj. My first instict from the picture was ENFj, but there are some things there that I would NEVER do. Things that practically go against my beliefs and world view. ...no, It's not what he does to the INFp. I could be very vindictive, if I hated someone. This very rarely happens and I make sure that everyone knows that I hate that person and I wouldn't spread untrue rumors... I would NEVER do my loundry at another person's house if there was even the most subtle hint that I wouldn't be welcome to do that. On principle, I have a very hard time accepting anyone's help and if someone helps me, I make sure I repay the favor. Like I would bring over some treat whenever I come over to do my laundry and I might even bring a book to keep myself out of everyone's way.
    Yeah, ENFj came across my mind before, but nothing really fits if you think about it. I've had ENFj's stay at my house before and they hardly grated on my nerves at all, unlike this guy did. I find that when ENFj's stay over they will usually be more solitary, and will even go out of their way to buy their own food before eating the food at my house, even if it is offered to them. I've noticed that ENFj's will also tend to be more openly confrontational when somebody makes them mad, and more willing to put up a fight. They actually mean business, while ESFj's will seem more nagging. An ENFj would also know how to put up with the INFp's bullshit, while I don't think an ESFj would really know how to do that.

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