Why sometimes LII and SEI can't activate each other (INTj-ISFp)

[machintruc]

1. I know a SEI dude. He's reserved but friendly and collectivistic. He's at ease in social situations involving strangers and avoids conflicts. In fact he's a highly sociable guy.

2. I know a SEI girl. She's cold, distant and egocentric, and sometimes seems to prefer to socialise with... animals. For this reason I called sometimes her "hippie ecologist" (for joking).

The girl case creates a problem : if the girl and I don't exchange information, we don't don't dualise each other, because the girl has an emotional condition which prevents her to connect with dudes/girls she don't like.

The guy is E9, the girl is E4. Fours are emotionally unstable, Nines don't. Besides, Nines avoid conflicts, Fours don't, and even tend to create them ! For this reason, there may be Gamma SF dudes which can't connect with ILI-4 girls, or Gamma NT girls which can't connect with ESI-6 (especially counterphobic) dudes or such.

[Creepy-bg]

I thought you didn't use ennegram since it's a masonic thing...

[machintruc]

I thought you didn't use ennegram since it's a masonic thing...

I studied the question. In fact it's a masonic thing, but that doesn't mean it's a sin to use it, because enneagram is founded on physiology. It isn't intrinsically related to Satan.

[UDP]

You must not use american dollar bills, then, either.

[jelly grass]

yeah, my best friend is an LII, so we're super-egos. if we don't communicate our thoughts and feelings, it's easy for us to misunderstand each other and conflicts occur. but when both of us or even just one of us is expressing ourselves, we get along really well.

[jelly grass]

i think thats what you were trying to say anyways ..?

"The girl case creates a problem : if the girl and I don't exchange information, we don't don't dualise each other"

[implied]

yeah, my best friend is an LII, so we're super-egos. if we don't communicate our thoughts and feelings, it's easy for us to misunderstand each other and conflicts occur. but when both of us or even just one of us is expressing ourselves, we get along really well.

you mean an ILI (INTp,) right? that would be the superego to SEI (ISFp.)


i have an ISFp friend that i get along with pretty well, honestly. i can feel the sort of head-bumping/function-clashing tension, though.

[jelly grass]

yeahh, i meant ILI
-_-
i dont know all the 3 letter thingys by heart

[machintruc]

yeahh, i meant ILI
-_-
i dont know all the 3 letter thingys by heart

are you sure you're not rather SEE ?

[jelly grass]

yeahh, i meant ILI
-_-
i dont know all the 3 letter thingys by heart

are you sure you're not rather SEE ?

yes