Are any Male "Carefuls" good at picking up girls at a bar? Seems like most don't have any game except for a few ESTjs. And even then it's more just self confidence. To be honest actually the only types I seeing as being able to pick up girls consistently are the Eps. ENTps and ESTps especially. ESFp males do okay as long as no one there knows who they are so they don't have a reputation. They can throw themselves at girls and shower them with compliments and that seems to work for them some of the time. Don't know that I know any Male ENFp's though so I'm really not sure on them. Anyway.... just wondering. Oh and ENTj's and ENFj's probably would if they could get more aggressive.