I don't know why I didn't post this earlier, but a while back I had an odd encounter with a male ENTp whom I knew through my ENFp ex-boyfriend.
Brief background info: he (the ENTp) and I always got along reasonably well, but our conversations never went beyond small-talk because we always talked to one another while we were hanging out with different social groups. He was always flirty, but I interpreted that as part of his general personality (which it was) and not as anything special directed towards me. But he did add me as a friend on his Facebook account the day after my bf and I broke up the first time, so that made me wonder about his intentions.
Well, here comes the odd part. One day my ENFp boyfriend (after we got back together) and I were sitting in a coffee bar with a couple of our friends whom the ENTp was friends with as well. Out of nowhere, the ENTp came up to me and my boyfriend and handed me a large, somewhat expensive box of chocolates and said, "you looked like you needed some chocolates," and then sat down next to me.
The conversation proceeded as usual, I thanked him, and my ENFp ex did absolutely nothing because 1) he's not a confrontational person, and 2) he was stupefied by the whole situation. I can't imagine what would have happened if my ex were an ESTp, haha (actually I can, and it would probably involve violence).
Well, after my ENFp bf and I broke up for the second and final time, the ENTp didn't make any effort to contact me or try to start something. WTF? My theory is that he gave me the chocolates because he was testing to see if I would leave my ENFp boyfriend for him, which would boost his ego. Either that or he was trying to get under my ex's skin, because those two didn't like each other very much. Or maybe he was feeling shy and self-conscious. He might have liked me, but if he did, he went about it in a very odd way.
Any ideas as to why he did this?