Yeah we get it darya, you are super edgy.Originally Posted by darya
Yeah we get it darya, you are super edgy.
Maybe don't be so self absorbed and you'd notice more around you. As creative Fe its strange you don't notice people, maybe even in your classes.
I do notice people in my classes I just don't become acquainted with IEI guys generally probably because they don't start conversations with me! And I am not romantically interested in sensitive, introverted guys so I wouldn't go out of my way to start the convo either. Damn. However...now that I think about it, I think I worked with one before. He was cool to talk to, no romantic/sexual feelings however. But we shared some of the same interests.
Yeah I was a little harsh there, I had been typing on my phone and hadn't meant to come across so accusatory, I was just trying to press upon a point was all. I'm sorry for that, hope its cool.
Nah, im actually, like, pretty dope. Not punchable at all.
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
*punch*
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