OK so my brother (ISFj) is almost finished with his divorce, and has met someone new. Rebound relationship. He says he's in LOVE. I finally met her today.
First, she was very late, and my brother said she is always late everywhere she goes.
She seemed to need to keep busy - she kept fussing with things, like getting dishes to clean, picking up stuff as soon as the kids finished with anything, etc.
She wasn't warm at all, but she was still nice in an understated way. She was talkative but didn't show a lot of emotion until she talked about her work - she's a family/child counselor. Then she became pretty animated.
She dresses in a very flashy manner, like she had a toe ring and lots of jewelry and stuff, but it didn't look very well put together to me. Like she wanted to show off wealth more than she wanted to be comfortable. I assume Se>Si.
She kept giving my brother advice. She suggested some different dishes he might get, suggested a movie he might like. Hmm I don't remember everything but she's into giving advice. Maybe that's why she's a counselor?
That's all I've got.