What are some key factors to note in spotting SLEs? This is from the ENFj hangout thread because it split off as I was talking to Baby about not being able to find any male SLEs. It's really quite saddening. I had a topic once about attracting SLEs, but I don't feel like bumping that all the way back up again, it's pretty old.
Namely, I want to know some physical attributes that they display or behaviors that they might all have in common. I am extremely intimidated by SLEs (or at least I am intimidated by the image of them I have in my head, lol) and I would be scared shitless to approach them. I want to know how to make them approach me. I'd love to have more Dual interaction, as I have had very little.