This is a relationship we are in. I'm not your wife, I'm your girlfriend. It not appropriate for me to wait longer than this.
It's been a week since we last talked. At first this felt like a puzzle, then a test, and then a punishment. Now it feels like a mean game.
I need to talk and listen and communicate with you. This is me: off anti-depressants, off drugs, off alcohol, and a year out of my divorce. I've experienced the ultimate betrayal from my ex husband and so in a relationship I need some reassurance in order to develop trust.
I've decided that I'm in the relationship. I'm willing to follow you anywhere. I will SEEK and find spiritual growth with you.
But I cannot do it without communication. YOU decide: we can either start communicating or YOU will have to release ME, because I can't do a relationship that's in limbo. But I will not make this decision, since I AM IN. YOU must make the decision. Right now.