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    We've talked about how ridiculous the whole BDSM concept is, anyway. It becomes more about mass-produced, plastic/leather/metal artifacts than about connecting with the other person in the most direct and intimate way possible.
    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
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    Yeah, I remember helping you with that
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Yeah but it helped
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunder
    That wasn't imagination anyway, just technique.

    If someone could explain to me what the whole "not imaginative in bed" thing actually means, maybe over PM, I would appreciate it.
    Being a bit inventive and exciting and not just lying there like a starfish. The sky is the limit really, doing things in the heat of the moment. Making unexpected noises or saying unexpected things. Changing up pace and position, bringing in toys, bringing in like hot chocolate or even those little mint things that disolve on your tounge. Pushing them off the bed and onto the floor.The list is infinate really

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    "And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin

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    Amen to the first part. Girls, if you don't know what a dead fish is, then you probably are one, and desperately need to learn how to make the missionary position interesting for your partner.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Yes. Also: sex is not just for the bedroom. In fact, you don't even have to do it in a room at all.
    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

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    I hear that's what Catholics do.
    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

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    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

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    on the topic of BDSM, I don't mind it (minus the sadism and masochism part) and it's all about what the ESTp wants. I am the sex slave.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baby
    Yes. Also: sex is not just for the bedroom. In fact, you don't even have to do it in a room at all.
    Amen!

    You don't even have to *do* it at all. Ruminating about it is simply delicioussss...

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    Quote Originally Posted by aka-kitsune
    Quote Originally Posted by Baby
    Yes. Also: sex is not just for the bedroom. In fact, you don't even have to do it in a room at all.
    Amen!

    You don't even have to *do* it at all. Ruminating about it is simply delicioussss...
    Well I wouldn't go so far as saying you don't need to have sex. But yeah, the anticipation and the aftermath are just as much fun as the act itself.
    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

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    (Baby, your avatar is unbelievably cool, you know that?)

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    (Thanks. It's Johnny Depp as Sweeney Todd in the new movie that's coming out sometime this winter.)
    "How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet

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