Or just Ti dominance itself?Originally Posted by UDPYeah. I am not sure about being on the edge of alpha atosphere myself. I relate very much to whatever there - that I bolded and put in red. I am very curious about that. I wonder - yes - if it is a beta aspect. It does not seem to be alpha, inherently. I am not sure though.Originally Posted by CarlaAnyway, we always have a nice alpha atmosphere going on ... and it's very easy to see my bf in this alpha light ... to see him as INTj-Ti. But in actual fact, he does always seem a bit "on the edge" of this atmosphere; as if, he goes along with it, but there's something more pressing, more urgent, more demanding, more ... betaish(?), motivating him compared to the rest of us. It just makes me wonder whether this is typical INTj-Ti behaviour; or whether my observations are going to be biased because we are seeing him in an alpha light. I wonder how I would see him and how would he modify his behaviour in a more beta atmosphere?
There's other little things too ... thinking about Expat's thread on the 8th function, for example. My bf likes to hobby cook; and I don't so much. Things like that.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter either way. He's still my bf ! I just find it funny the similarity between this case and some of the thoughts that UDP is having right now.
How do INTjs and ISTjs feel about this issue?