Relations identity, or identification
They can be described as classic about a father and son, mother and daughter. The cohesive family in which the husband and wife have complementary types of identity, the identity of such parents are often. Daughters often grow up with the same types of mental mother and father-sons.
Relations identification, and attitudes additions needed in the formation of individual children : no one can be the best teacher than identical, and better educated than complementary. Therefore, in families where parents complement each other, each of the children one of them could be the identical, other complementary. These families provide optimal conditions for the education and socialization of children.
The complementary type acts directly on the subconscious, in the formation of habits and behavioral patterns. A person with one parent who has a complementary type of mental illness, assuming its validity and relevance to humans. He was confident that, in his childhood, and life-will understand and love in the family and in the future workforce. Parents with a complementary type psyche give children confidence in their involvement in the affairs of other people, their value to them, learn work skills, provide a sense of confidence in its duality, and therefore fully capable of individuality.
Individuals with the identical type of IM in a deliberate act (as other people, form a conscious ideals, goals or methods. Who grew up with the parent identical personality type using them as road signs. Was his road more confident, much less wandering and lost, more specifically implementing their intellect.
At present, and still the stereotype of families with children is largely mother. This creates a lack of identification and adapted to life in the community. In such families :
-tem children, the type of mentality is the identical type of mothers (often daughters), the family lacked the supplement. They are not used to having one of the parents to complement the type of mental illness can know their thoughts and wishes, not accustomed to the heat, cold and suspicion grow, not able to work. They have a tendency instrumentalnost and all life's problems to deal with on their own, nervous tension, heightened the pursuit of intellect, keen sense of social prestige, the absolute social ambitions;
Those children, the type of psyche which is complementary to the type of mother, perfectly aware of its value in informal human relationships. We are confident that should be loved, that they, like all other people, it is love. But to underestimate their intelligence, they weakened the desire for it.
Relations identity extremely productive in learning. No other treatment do not have the high rate of availability described material. But the relationship between teacher and student kratkovremenna. It may have something to teach and learn. Then begins a calm manner. Indeed relations identity without sentimentality. Even if it is a relationship between people who have relationships with others of different. Cross transactions do not occur. In many respects, these partners similar to the electrical charge. They pull each other until one of them charged, and the other neutral. And when the two charged each has its way. (Except when it is held together by a common cause, as they are self - ns units, and parts of a whole. Then it is a very quiet, productive cooperation, which is never empty because of disputes cup. They too accurately assess each other. At a time when one of them is odd, is that, that the case be dealt with or the child's best interest.)
Relations calm people equate such people understand each other poluslova. If they settle an uninhabited island, there is now a real danger that they razuchatsya said. Indeed, if what one sees, sees another that took one understands the other, what to say and to whom?
Writers and artists from the same type of IM reader and viewer perceived as people with sensitive intelligence that can penetrate into the heart of things. But no mysterious cover not disrupted, no secrets had been opened. Simply, we were not where they were, and did not see what they saw. Therefore, individuals with identical type of IM is not valued as artists, or other means to decorate life, but as researchers, opening up new horizons.
As seen people with identical structure IM in a meeting? This is very reminiscent of a sense perception clean windows. Provided that you are accustomed to dusty. You live somewhere in the fifth or 10th floor and was noticed that the window is covered with long gray haze that it distorts the color of heaven. And then you see his strange and dangerous pobleskivayuschim transparent. It is certainly better than the old, but also something worse, it does not protect. And you even a little afraid to come closer.
About the same felt when meeting with people like her. It iis not better or worse than the other. But it is transparent to you and you to him transparent. They pretend to be. OK impossible. Says it simple, "" your words that at first even strange. The sense vseponimaniya to business communication and preventing empty, when in fact nothing to say.
In a society often wear a mask. With regard to the identity of this mask sense. More often than not, it seems only thought sad attempt to conceal its weakness and failure. (Interestingly, in the mirror to mask the same sense, but there it is like the call for help.) If you want, you help him. But if you can not or have simply do not want it fully recognizes your right to choose. Probezhavshaya you shadow of his more outspoken than other long-distance wrangling. He knows better than any other, in what situation you put what benefits or spiritual calm denies. He himself would be so likely to be received. This is another great you can appear or failure. It just people and nothing more. Something you have yes, something you do not want or not want, how they want, but what you have achieved, and equally to what is not reached, it did not change in the eyes of your essence. Perhaps because both to a certain extent and it is available. Important is the final result, a distance that can be in one direction or the other go. Man measure their efforts and distance barriers, which he overcomes towards the goal, not the result. And this is not how to lead and where the road led. The one not find assistants, and others have mykatsya alone, the same fate of all types.
If a human life on earth missions, each new generation is its continuation. Although the word "mission" first may seem too lofty, given a bloody history, speaks to us of the bitterness of substance proudly call themselves Homo sapiens, and indeed unashamedly destroying living and inanimate nature. Even its kind. The only thing in our eyes rehabilitate rights act, is our knowledge that it was not alone swami and self units, but only part of it. Composite human intellect or sverhorganizma named sotsionom us. Part, which, however, still had to bear the burden of responsibility for all humanity and a sense of guilt because of its inability to bear the burden, because they do not deal with it. This is a contradiction between what people knew about or thought about, and what it really is. But if nothing changes and with the advent Socionics, it is proof that the idea of differentiation psyche is not justified.
Continuity mission in the culture. One generation begins, another develops, complements ends and begins again. So here we are now confronted with an interesting phenomenon. In evaluating new truths discovered in previous generations. Anyone who has opened, along with an opening not yet noticed something lying "at the same depth". Or made public the truth less precise than it was 50 years later. It does not matter whether Darwin, Einstein, Freud, Jung or anybody else. It is important for us to one type of identity in their work does not see "mistakes". Sees successfully launched and unfinished work, which needs to be addressed, which should go to complete and improve further. Any incorrect or not accurate result is not seen as a mistake or deceive the author as well as an important step towards the development of science as the best conclusion from the available material at that time. He did not shitty or zhalok. If we have something and wonder, the only way he has made in such difficult circumstances of life. Where he found the time? We are aware of how difficult and complex was his life. Not zloradstvuem about what this so-called "genius" made "errors" that he had been unable to immediately resolve to overcome now struggling dozens of institutions and spreading throughout the world.
However, keep in mind that only people with the same type of mental illness may go to the teachers and to test it. Even more : people with the identical type did not take on faith that made its predecessor.
Best teachers: round two. (Update)
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Originally Posted by Jarno
