I would like it if you could comment on the aggressor/victim erotic roles somewhat.
What do you look for in other people in this way?
How is it rewarding for you to be involved in the aggressor/victim compatibility?
For Kristiina, what is it like being married to another victim? And how, if at all, do you feel a need for an ISTj / Se from your partner - what are you looking for?
For anyone else in a dual or aggressor victim relationship, comments are encouraged.