And is this related to PoLR? I'm not talking about compliments like "you're so awesome," or "you're so (attractive, smart, interesting, etc.)", I'm talking about serious expressions of appreciation and emotionality.
I ask because I have an ESTp friend who is moving away, and I sent him a somewhat sentimental goodbye email. I told him that I wished him the best, that he deserved the best, and that I hoped he would return one day so that my friends and I could see him again. Was I hitting his by doing this? I wonder because he hasn't responded to me yet, so I don't know if he reacted positively or not. I don't think I went beyond the ordinary INFp effusiveness by expressing my well wishes for him. Or did I?