Haven't you heard? - INFjs don't have sex. (They reproduce parthenogenetically.)
Haven't you heard? - INFjs don't have sex. (They reproduce parthenogenetically.)
I used to know an INFj girl that would sleep with a different guy every week. She was into pain and bondage and stuff like that. She told me to whip her one time but i was to shy.
Nah i dont really
I know an INFj girl that likes flowers and butterflies tho
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
A description from ISFj sums up my attitude towards sex:
Originally Posted by www.socioniko.net/en
The INFjs I know generally wait for marriage. Or until they're engaged or something like that anyway.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
I know an attractive EII with liberal attitudes towards sex. She very much likes the romantic first stage of relationships where men buy her flowers, take her out to cultural events and to restaurants and pay for her, and try to win her over. Sex is part of the process, but she likes the whole romantic process more than sex itself. She doesn't stay around long enough to establish long-term relationships, but stays true to her Ideal Person and prefers to preserve her freedom while getting all the monetary and other bonuses of casual relationships.
It is easier for the eye of a camel to pass through a rich man than for a needle to enter the kingdom of heaven.
I just remembered I know a male INFj. He is gay, so he can't wait for marriage - at least not in the state of Michigan - but he does seem to prefer to be in a relationship than to play the field.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
That was my view on sex when I was younger; I was going to wait until I was married. I thought a woman should only have sex with one man, and that she should wait until she was married to do so. I had a very conservative upbringing (according to my father I'm not allowed to date until I'm 25), and was taught that sex is a bad thing.
I suppose that is still something I struggle with... not viewing sex as something bad. I don't even know if I've ever said the word "sex" out loud before. Sex is not something I'd ever bring up in conversation, and I am usually a bit uncomfortable when other people do.
... not that I don't enjoy sex, it is a big part of relationships for me. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone whose sex drive wasn't compatible with mine. I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.
So, I have mixed views on sex.
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
That was only because he was an INTp and needed something to complain about. No sane man would complain about a woman's high sex drive -- that type of person would complain if he were king of the world.
Nevertheless, sex drive has a lot to do with how one handles problems, it seems.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
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You know what? You're an individual, and that makes people nervous. And it's gonna keep making people nervous for the rest of your life. - Ole Golly from Harriet, the spy.
You have sex for 12 hours every day?
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
You have sex for 12 hours every day?:wink:
You do aswell mea? I must be letting my ENFp bretheren down. As soon as i find someone to have sex with i will begin my training. Even if it falls offYou have sex for 12 hours every day?
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
I knew an INFJ girl that liked sex really much.
Damn... gotta call her again one of these days.
He did complain a lot, now that you mention it.That was only because he was an INTp and needed something to complain about. No sane man would complain about a woman's high sex drive -- that type of person would complain if he were king of the world.
I don't understand...
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
Re: INFjs and sex
After sex they eat the ESTPI'm starting this topic out of random curiosity, since I haven't really heard much about INFjs' attitudes towards sex, relationships, etc. I want to know what it's like on the opposite side of the road. Also, what do you guys look for in an ideal partner and relationship? What makes you happy in this regard?
Thanks in advance for providing your insights.
Well I am back. How's everyone? Don't have as much time now, but glad to see some of the old gang are still here.
SEX
SEX
SEX
SEX
SEX
SOCKS
Get your Socks off
Socks off yay!
Get your rocks off
With added coital pleasure...
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
personally I've got a thing for socks on (not quite sure what that's all about
As long as they are the only thing on? Keeps the tootsies warm i supposepersonally I've got a thing for socks on (not quite sure what that's all about
ENFp (Unsure of Subtype)
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anaïs Nin
Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.You have sex for 12 hours every day?
One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.
Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
Mikemex invented the Easter rise from the dead trick... Jesus doesn't save Mikemex, Mikemex saves Jesus!Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.You have sex for 12 hours every day?
One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.
Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
Mikemex counted to infinity...twice.Mikemex invented the Easter rise from the dead trick... Jesus doesn't save Mikemex, Mikemex saves Jesus!Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.You have sex for 12 hours every day?
One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.
Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
You forgot to mention that the ocean's water split near him like Moses when he ran intoDude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.You have sex for 12 hours every day?
One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.
Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Yeah they all say it's like that in public but then they like to do many thingsA description from ISFj sums up my attitude towards sex:
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
LOL.You forgot to mention that the ocean's water split near him like Moses when he ran intoDude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.You have sex for 12 hours every day?
One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.
Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
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You know what? You're an individual, and that makes people nervous. And it's gonna keep making people nervous for the rest of your life. - Ole Golly from Harriet, the spy.
INFjs don't have sex. Discuss.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
it goes along with our inclination to adopt children from poor countries instead of procreating like animals, because we are extremely civilized and always humanitarian and charitable.
also having sex entails getting a bit messy, which is a problem for our Si HA.
Getting messy? haha, like sweat? Actually, don't answer that. I think it's hot. Unless, of course, they're dropping pools of it on your face.
Sex is one of those things that I honestly don't see how it's type related. Anyone else?
Yeah I relate to this as well. Very much so, actually.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
i have a hard time seeing it as type related. i don't see how i use Fi or Ne when i have sex. the emotional aspect is more implicit for me and i'm only consciously focused on the physical aspect. but then it seems like sex is something i relegate to either my polr or HA, which seems weird. basically, i think its just...instincts, or whatever. idk. but then there a fair number of people who see it is primarily emotional and maybe this is true for a lot of NFs? i have no idea.
also the "infantile sex" thing has yet to make any sense to me whatsoever lol. just no. no.
One EII I had a sexual relationship with wanted me to dominate her in bed, to give her orders, and tell her what to do. Te seeking? I couldn't really do that, I am too democratic in bed.
I don't really relate to any of the romantic-type descriptions. Are those meant to be how you are when you're having sex or how you are when you're in a relationship? Because I can definetly see myself being a Caregiver but...uh...it doesn't cross over into the bedroom. If it does, infantile wouldn't seem like anyone i'd ever want to be with. Who wants games and weird things going on when you're trying to have sex? It's serious business.
They are poorly worded, like the Reinen dichotomies. Also, I think the assumption is just where you place your priority during sex. Like "infantile" is just Ne, so like creativity and trying out different things, but no one likes boring sex so everyone does some of that, "infantile" or not. And everyone likes other aspects of sex covered by the other poorly named categories too.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
Until you're 25? That's rediculous. Your parents can't control you once you're 18.That was my view on sex when I was younger; I was going to wait until I was married. I thought a woman should only have sex with one man, and that she should wait until she was married to do so. I had a very conservative upbringing (according to my father I'm not allowed to date until I'm 25
I suppose that is still something I struggle with... not viewing sex as something bad. I don't even know if I've ever said the word "sex" out loud before. Sex is not something I'd ever bring up in conversation, and I am usually a bit uncomfortable when other people do.
... not that I don't enjoy sex, it is a big part of relationships for me. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone whose sex drive wasn't compatible with mine. I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.
So, I have mixed views on sex.
I was taught in youth group that sex is good. God invented it. It's only bad when misused.
What's sex?
Was gonna agree, but after thinking, not sure. Perhaps a bit:
Maybe willingness to try different positions, creativity, related to intuition, desire to express love emotionally, somehow ethically related, desire to enjoy it, experience it more, possibly Si-related, wanting to dominate, Se, figuring out how the puzzle pieces fit together, related to logic.
I knew one INFj, who while of course having her ethics/morals for her "Dream man" she would one day meet, was a bit, well...not sure the word for it. But she slept w/ her married boss, and she also slept w/ some guy at a party. And then another guy when her roommate was home. I think INFjs are as into sex as anyone. They just act so sweet that it's strange to remember it's possible.
a guy I know is INFJ and his INTJ lady yells at him constantly, since he has a much lower sex drive than her.
So two conflicting examples.
Hi! I'm an ENFP. :-)
lol, I don't know why, but I've had people tell me that I look like someone who has slept around because of my looks; also that I'm a drinker... Idk if I should consider it a compliment.
I think it's a means of extracting pulp from orange juice.
I had sex with a dual. It was a bit rough but I enjoyed it. I like the fact that they can move so fast and have a good spacial awareness. We ended up all over the bed, on every corner and I couldn't make out how I got there. LOL
I'm trying to be more open about this sex thing. It's much easier writing about it than talking about it. If I were to talk about it, OH forget it. I would blush and not be able to
Last edited by Beautiful sky; 02-24-2011 at 05:09 AM.
Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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