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    I'm starting this topic out of random curiosity, since I haven't really heard much about INFjs' attitudes towards sex, relationships, etc. I want to know what it's like on the opposite side of the road. Also, what do you guys look for in an ideal partner and relationship? What makes you happy in this regard?

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    Haven't you heard? - INFjs don't have sex. (They reproduce parthenogenetically.)

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    I used to know an INFj girl that would sleep with a different guy every week. She was into pain and bondage and stuff like that. She told me to whip her one time but i was to shy.

    Nah i dont really

    I know an INFj girl that likes flowers and butterflies tho
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    A description from ISFj sums up my attitude towards sex:

    Quote Originally Posted by www.socioniko.net/en
    Sexual liberties are not for him. He keeps fidelity to his spouse not for him/her, but for the sake of self-respect. For a woman of this type a thought that somewhere is a man who "has had" her is unbearable. He dislikes a lot, when somebody snoops about his talents, potential capabilities or boasts about own capabilities in front of other people.

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    The INFjs I know generally wait for marriage. Or until they're engaged or something like that anyway.
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    I know an attractive EII with liberal attitudes towards sex. She very much likes the romantic first stage of relationships where men buy her flowers, take her out to cultural events and to restaurants and pay for her, and try to win her over. Sex is part of the process, but she likes the whole romantic process more than sex itself. She doesn't stay around long enough to establish long-term relationships, but stays true to her Ideal Person and prefers to preserve her freedom while getting all the monetary and other bonuses of casual relationships.
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    I just remembered I know a male INFj. He is gay, so he can't wait for marriage - at least not in the state of Michigan - but he does seem to prefer to be in a relationship than to play the field.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slacker Mom
    The INFjs I know generally wait for marriage. Or until they're engaged or something like that anyway.
    That was my view on sex when I was younger; I was going to wait until I was married. I thought a woman should only have sex with one man, and that she should wait until she was married to do so. I had a very conservative upbringing (according to my father I'm not allowed to date until I'm 25 ), and was taught that sex is a bad thing.

    I suppose that is still something I struggle with... not viewing sex as something bad. I don't even know if I've ever said the word "sex" out loud before. Sex is not something I'd ever bring up in conversation, and I am usually a bit uncomfortable when other people do.

    ... not that I don't enjoy sex, it is a big part of relationships for me. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone whose sex drive wasn't compatible with mine. I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockclimber
    I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.
    That was only because he was an INTp and needed something to complain about. No sane man would complain about a woman's high sex drive -- that type of person would complain if he were king of the world.



    Nevertheless, sex drive has a lot to do with how one handles problems, it seems.
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    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    :wink:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mea
    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    :wink:
    You do aswell mea? I must be letting my ENFp bretheren down. As soon as i find someone to have sex with i will begin my training. Even if it falls off
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    I knew an INFJ girl that liked sex really much.

    Damn... gotta call her again one of these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP
    Quote Originally Posted by rockclimber
    I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.
    That was only because he was an INTp and needed something to complain about. No sane man would complain about a woman's high sex drive -- that type of person would complain if he were king of the world.
    He did complain a lot, now that you mention it.

    Quote Originally Posted by UDP
    Nevertheless, sex drive has a lot to do with how one handles problems, it seems.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    I'm starting this topic out of random curiosity, since I haven't really heard much about INFjs' attitudes towards sex, relationships, etc. I want to know what it's like on the opposite side of the road. Also, what do you guys look for in an ideal partner and relationship? What makes you happy in this regard?

    Thanks in advance for providing your insights.
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
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    personally I've got a thing for socks on (not quite sure what that's all about )
    As long as they are the only thing on? Keeps the tootsies warm i suppose
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.

    One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.

    Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand
    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.

    One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.

    Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat
    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand
    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.

    One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.

    Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand
    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.

    One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.

    Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
    You forgot to mention that the ocean's water split near him like Moses when he ran into
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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice
    A description from ISFj sums up my attitude towards sex:

    Quote Originally Posted by www.socioniko.net/en
    Sexual liberties are not for him. He keeps fidelity to his spouse not for him/her, but for the sake of self-respect. For a woman of this type a thought that somewhere is a man who "has had" her is unbearable. He dislikes a lot, when somebody snoops about his talents, potential capabilities or boasts about own capabilities in front of other people.
    Yeah they all say it's like that in public but then they like to do many things
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Quote Originally Posted by force my hand
    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex
    Obviously your sex sessions don't last 9-12 hours. Try to maintain that rhythm on a daily basis.
    You have sex for 12 hours every day?
    Dude, mikemex is Jesus' older brother.

    One time at a beach party, I saw mikemex drink 100 beers in one sitting.

    Shortly thereafter - in a drunken rage of course - he ran into the ocean and started beaching passing whales because they were interfering with his own sonar capabilities... which he invented himself.
    You forgot to mention that the ocean's water split near him like Moses when he ran into
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    INFjs don't have sex. Discuss.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mariella View Post
    INFjs don't have sex. Discuss.
    it goes along with our inclination to adopt children from poor countries instead of procreating like animals, because we are extremely civilized and always humanitarian and charitable.

    also having sex entails getting a bit messy, which is a problem for our Si HA.

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    Getting messy? haha, like sweat? Actually, don't answer that. I think it's hot. Unless, of course, they're dropping pools of it on your face.

    Sex is one of those things that I honestly don't see how it's type related. Anyone else?

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    Quote Originally Posted by eunice View Post
    A description from ISFj sums up my attitude towards sex:
    Originally Posted by www.socioniko.net/en
    Sexual liberties are not for him. He keeps fidelity to his spouse not for him/her, but for the sake of self-respect. For a woman of this type a thought that somewhere is a man who "has had" her is unbearable.

    Yeah I relate to this as well. Very much so, actually.
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    i have a hard time seeing it as type related. i don't see how i use Fi or Ne when i have sex. the emotional aspect is more implicit for me and i'm only consciously focused on the physical aspect. but then it seems like sex is something i relegate to either my polr or HA, which seems weird. basically, i think its just...instincts, or whatever. idk. but then there a fair number of people who see it is primarily emotional and maybe this is true for a lot of NFs? i have no idea.

    also the "infantile sex" thing has yet to make any sense to me whatsoever lol. just no. no.

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    One EII I had a sexual relationship with wanted me to dominate her in bed, to give her orders, and tell her what to do. Te seeking? I couldn't really do that, I am too democratic in bed.

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    hmmm. bad infantile, bad. heh.

    lol @ the idea of the arisocratic/democratic dichotomy playing out in bed. (not that you meant it that way.)

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    I don't really relate to any of the romantic-type descriptions. Are those meant to be how you are when you're having sex or how you are when you're in a relationship? Because I can definetly see myself being a Caregiver but...uh...it doesn't cross over into the bedroom. If it does, infantile wouldn't seem like anyone i'd ever want to be with. Who wants games and weird things going on when you're trying to have sex? It's serious business.

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    They are poorly worded, like the Reinen dichotomies. Also, I think the assumption is just where you place your priority during sex. Like "infantile" is just Ne, so like creativity and trying out different things, but no one likes boring sex so everyone does some of that, "infantile" or not. And everyone likes other aspects of sex covered by the other poorly named categories too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rockclimber View Post
    That was my view on sex when I was younger; I was going to wait until I was married. I thought a woman should only have sex with one man, and that she should wait until she was married to do so. I had a very conservative upbringing (according to my father I'm not allowed to date until I'm 25 ), and was taught that sex is a bad thing.

    I suppose that is still something I struggle with... not viewing sex as something bad. I don't even know if I've ever said the word "sex" out loud before. Sex is not something I'd ever bring up in conversation, and I am usually a bit uncomfortable when other people do.

    ... not that I don't enjoy sex, it is a big part of relationships for me. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone whose sex drive wasn't compatible with mine. I had an INTp boyfriend who was convinced my need for sex would kill him, he would complain about it all the time.

    So, I have mixed views on sex.
    Until you're 25? That's rediculous. Your parents can't control you once you're 18.

    I was taught in youth group that sex is good. God invented it. It's only bad when misused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    Sex is one of those things that I honestly don't see how it's type related. Anyone else?
    Was gonna agree, but after thinking, not sure. Perhaps a bit:

    Maybe willingness to try different positions, creativity, related to intuition, desire to express love emotionally, somehow ethically related, desire to enjoy it, experience it more, possibly Si-related, wanting to dominate, Se, figuring out how the puzzle pieces fit together, related to logic.

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    I knew one INFj, who while of course having her ethics/morals for her "Dream man" she would one day meet, was a bit, well...not sure the word for it. But she slept w/ her married boss, and she also slept w/ some guy at a party. And then another guy when her roommate was home. I think INFjs are as into sex as anyone. They just act so sweet that it's strange to remember it's possible.

    a guy I know is INFJ and his INTJ lady yells at him constantly, since he has a much lower sex drive than her.

    So two conflicting examples.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jewels View Post
    I knew one INFj, who while of course having her ethics/morals for her "Dream man" she would one day meet, was a bit, well...not sure the word for it. But she slept w/ her married boss, and she also slept w/ some guy at a party. And then another guy when her roommate was home. I think INFjs are as into sex as anyone. They just act so sweet that it's strange to remember it's possible.

    a guy I know is INFJ and his INTJ lady yells at him constantly, since he has a much lower sex drive than her.

    So two conflicting examples.
    lol, I don't know why, but I've had people tell me that I look like someone who has slept around because of my looks; also that I'm a drinker... Idk if I should consider it a compliment .

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    What's sex?
    I think it's a means of extracting pulp from orange juice.
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