Very quiet on first impression. In new groups of people, he will be very reserved and fade into the background. Certainly an introvert, I know this for sure. But beyond that, if you just meet him - it will be *very* hard to tell what he is. He gives off this "dead" aura.. very blank body language, image, way of walking. Quite languid, closed off.
Getting to know him, he is very interesting and surprising. Many things seem to contradict what you might think of him from that first impression. He is willing to do almost anything. You can seemingly pressure him into doing crazy things, but you know it is not really "pressure"... he *wants* to do them - I am talking about random things, like drugs, climbing on top of school roofs with a rope, wandering aimlessly through parks. He said he wants excitement.
He described himself as being very versatile - he could be your "raver friend" or that "nerdy guy" who discusses anime and video games with you.
Beyond the quiet exterior also lies profound thought. Values thought over emotion, and says he fears the fact that he has to *think* about something for example, "Death is sad" ... and rationalize why it is sad rather than actually feeling sad just because say, someone told him someone died. It's not that he doesn't feel.. he just has to think about why he should feel?
Very intellectual. Good in Sciences and Maths but all around just pretty good. Quite into religion and religious conversation/debate. Him and I had a very long discussion in regards to our beliefs and whatnot.. I seem to very much enjoy hearing his point of view on things. I believe it is his showing through.
We get along quite splendidly after the initial weirdness/awkwardness. He says he can open up to me like noone else and has told me things already that he has told noone before. It really took me by surprise because he started saying some very personal things and quite depressing things.. he seemed very emotional at that point, and I wanted to cheer him up, to make him smile, you know that kind of stuff. helping ?
After the quietness, ... it is just so amazing that he is really so talkative! I believe I make him feel comfortable - he says he is drawn to me for some reason to just be able to tell me things. I also have noticed that I tend to reassure him when he is fearful.. in a new situation or whatnot. Usually it is other people telling *me* not to worry.. here, it is me telling him everything will be alright. It's like we take care of eachother.
Other random tidbits: Does not seem to care what others will say/think in a public situation. Encouraged me to just "say it and let go" when I told him that I never say all that is on my mind.. and tells me not to care about what others think. It's like we are helping eachother solve problems.. ?
Mutual feeling of affection. Calming feeling. He seems to hang around quite a few INFps, ISTjs and other types. There is this one girl who is absolutely smitten with him and appears to be an ESFj. He does not like her in that way, but feels the necessity to be around her because if he doesn't.. "she will cry."
Tender, noble are two words to sum him up. Likes to be thought of as a mystery.
Jung test (similarminds) came out as INTJ. Does not seem to coorelate to many INTjs I know though.