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    I have a sister - 25 years old and EII. She began to work 3-4 months ago or something, and she's becoming abnormally hostile. How can I deal with that ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by machintruc
    I have a sister - 25 years old and EII. She began to work 3-4 months ago or something, and she's becoming abnormally hostile. How can I deal with that ?
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    You mistyped her. She's actually ESI, and is conditioned by the evil Gamma overlords to be be hostile towards noble LII's. Or you need to re-work your version of Socionics to fit EII's as "hostile" types.
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    give her a hug

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat
    give her a hug
    works for me. ):
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    Talk to her, strengthen your relationship with her, let her know you are there for her.
    She most likely would appreciate it if you take an interest into her day to day life, even if she does not act like it at first.


    and she's becoming abnormally hostile
    to you? to who? Explain.
    Explain more in general.

    I just heard a story of an EII who started a job and hates it because she was so shy. She had to work with people and it made her really uncomfortable for whatever reason. EII's can absorb the feelings and stresses of others fairly well, and sometimes they cannot avoid it... so offer some of your IJ emotional levity to her, and figure out how to demonstrate some caregiving. Even if you are not good at it, she might appreciate the effort.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat
    give her a hug
    agreed. hugs help.
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    work is frustrating.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat
    give her a hug
    goat you're so Si lol.

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    hey! im not Si, but I like huggin girls
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    hey! im not Si, but I like huggin girls
    it's the timing that makes it Si.

    YOU like huggin girls cuz you're Se and horny lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by diamond8
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    hey! im not Si, but I like huggin girls
    it's the timing that makes it Si.

    YOU like huggin girls cuz you're Se and horny lol.
    wonder who does more hugging... a horny ESTp or a smooth ISFP

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bionicgoat
    Quote Originally Posted by diamond8
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    hey! im not Si, but I like huggin girls
    it's the timing that makes it Si.

    YOU like huggin girls cuz you're Se and horny lol.
    wonder who does more hugging... a horny ESTp or a smooth ISFP
    goat you be a smooooth criminal dadadadada :wink:

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    I work with an INFj girl. It's nice to have another Se-PoLR around, what with all the Gammas and Se-ego types there.

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