Hi, I now know two INTj's, and one has become very close of late, so it would be nice to know more about them.
Do you find yourself in your head a lot, over analysing things quite often? The person im thinking of says she used to as a child think about everything obsesively, to the point that it annoyed her 'why am i thinking about this argg' and it kept her awake at night.
You people seem very trustworthy, and I get the impression that you really need to feel you can trust someone completely. In particular to feel comfortable about discussing deeper things, like value systems and absolute trust and time to discuss insecurities. Agree?
INTj's are very independent people, and I have heard both I know say 'when you think about it, were all really just alone in the world'. This makes me feel uncomfortable, its cold, even for an ISTp Do you tend to think like that? it seems to me that its consistent with the rest of you personality, hard working, driven to do the right thing, to do your duty, but in a detached way, that is respectfull of other people.
Oh, and how can I make you people laugh more, or raise your spirits a bit?, you people often seem to have a consistent naturally low spirit.