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    My years in the military weren't wasted but the bureaucracy and politicking were noxious. Taking orders from haughty morons and babysitting grown men were also nuisances. Unless you're the sort of masochist who enjoys being treated as disposable chattel or you've been lobotomized by blind jingoism, you might want to consider other career paths than defending corporatism under the guide of democracy for Uncle Sammy.

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    i think i'd rather let my career choose me. i've wanted to be a psychiatrist to a preschool teacher to a photographer in less than a month. so whatever comes, comes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rafaeli View Post
    i think i'd rather let my career choose me. i've wanted to be a psychiatrist to a preschool teacher to a photographer in less than a month. so whatever comes, comes.
    Haha, I've considered those three too.
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    I'm not sure if there is a "right" career for me tbh, but may be I'll find it one day
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    I'm curious to hear suggestions: What, given the current state of things, might be some relatively "safe" career paths that might be suitable for an IEI. I'm mostly interested to hear of ones that will reliably yield 40k+.

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    Doormat without a wife beater husband.

    Oh you need +40k? Become a succesful artist. Or marry rich.
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    I may not be IEI, but I'm working towards getting a job as a grant writer for non-profit organizations, particularly in the realm of sustainable agriculture and/or nutrition programs for low-income populations. Non-profits always need money, and the grant writers are some of the last people to go during layoffs. Experienced freelance grant writers can make $100+/hr. An IEI could use to foresee how a project will develop over time, and to persuade grant makers to give their money for the project.

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    Whatever that job would be, it's probably not going to be a normal one. Normal jobs with that high pay are for valuers. Obviously.
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    Most "stable" careers, unfortunately, require a lot of 1.) emotional investment, and 2.) educational commitment, usually at least a year or two of undergraduate prerequisites plus a masters degree. These factors may may them less appealing to IEIs, who often might prefer to live more "open-ended" and have time and energy left over for other, less practical, interests like music, art, or writing. I know, personally, that I've kind of burnt out on school after undergrad and the prospect of going back to take prerequisites is daunting. However, these careers can be very rewarding and suited to IEI's interests/natural dispositions.

    Things to take into account:

    1.) Your emotional and mental health. A lot of IEIs tend to experience depression and anxiety. This can make high-stress and high-responsibility positions (such and those that have sales quotas, engineering and surgical professions which require a lot of attention to detail, law enforcement, etc.) a bad idea. Take stock of what you are realistically willing to handle, but don't stress too much.

    2.) Time and energy commitments. If you have other things you want to do with your life (e.g., be a musician, opera singer, actor, artist, etc.), you'll need to consider how much of a time and energy suck these professions are. If you want to have time on the side to pursue a less practical career, you'll want to think about careers with high flexibility, such as Speech Pathology.

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    Physician - If you are intelligent, want to be a doctor, have good study habits, and are social, there's no reason to discount this as a possibility. It's high-stress and medical school is probably the most academically demanding pathway you can choose, but for the select few whose heart is in it, it is worth the decade of hell between pre-med, med school, and residency. Still, only a very specific breed of person is meant to be a doctor: people who actually want to be doctors. That is a very small percentage of the population, but some of those people are IEIs and excellent at the interpersonal aspect of the career.

    Speech-Language Pathologist and Audiologist - The former works with people with who have swallowing problems and speech disorders (aphasia, vocal problems such as nodules or chronic laryngitis, and with people with autism). The latter diagnoses and provides devices for those with hearing problems. Therapy can be rather boring and monotonous. One thing to keep in mind: these are highly female-dominated professions. I was considering speech pathology myself, but was sort of disheartened when I discovered that less than 5% of speech therapists are male (though this means that, if you're a male, you're looked on as highly valuable by admissions committees). They both require a masters degree, and entry into the master programs usually require a bachelor's in the subject or a year of prerequisite courses. Average income is around $60-70K a year, though, and SLPs and Audiologists are in very high demand with tons of flexibility.

    Physical Therapist - Now requires a D.P.T., which is a three year program, in addition to about two years worth of prerequisite science classes (usually two semesters of Bio, Chem, and Physics, plus a year of Anatomy/Physiology, Psychology and Statistics courses). Entry into the D.P.T. programs are pretty competitive with a lot of applicants for very limits slots and the program itself is intensive and quite demanding. However, this is an amazing field and all the PTs I know a few of them IEI) love it. If the educational commitment is too much for you, perhaps consider the two-year associates degree to become a Physical Therapist Assistant. Salaries are considerably lower (around $40K for the assistant, compared to 80K for the PT), but you can get your degree from a community college for much less money and time. PT facilities, however, can be noisy places, with a lot going on all at once. This might be a liability if you are prone to sensory overload and emotional overwhelm.

    Occupational Therapist - Similar to PT but more oriented toward rehabilitating people for activities of daily living. (Warning: this sometimes includes toileting.) Considerably easier to get into than PT and salaries are comparable (usually around $70-80,000 on average). Requires more Psychology courses than hard sciences in PT in undergrad, and a two-year Masters, as opposed to a three-year doctoral. A little boring, but requires less emotional investment.

    Teacher - The pay is not great, but meets your goal of $40,000. It's pretty recession-proof as educators are always needed. If you aren't interested in teaching, educational administration can be an alternative career path. Teaching, however, can be emotionally draining and demanding. I would avoid this path if you are have any history of depression or anxiety, as these tend to be exacerbated by the daily grind of teaching. I'm not sure exactly why this is, but I've read of studies that show lawyers and public school teachers have the highest rates of depression among all professions.

    Psychologist - requires a Ph.D., but IEIs seem to be drawn to this profession and thrive in it. It's not as stable as the previous options, but top earners can make anywhere from $60-100,000+ a year. It would probably be very rewarding, but also overwhelming if you tend to "absorb" other people's emotional turmoil. If I were motivated to go through another five years of school, this would definitely interest me. An interesting sub-set that pays better than clinical psychology is organizational psychology - basically the people to whom HR turn when they look for ways to boost productivity and happiness in the company.

    Also, you may want to look into Public Health. An M.P.H. is a very flexible degree that can get you work in healthcare settings that don't require direct patient care, such as medical writing, government (state and federal) positions, and consulting positions in the private sector. It's a broad field, and you can specialize in a few different areas, some more science-based and others more policy/administration based.

    Jobs that don't require so much schooling:

    HVAC Technician - Boring, but stable. People's air-conditioning units and heaters are always going haywire. Income varies. It can be pretty low ($25,000) to quite high ($70,000), depending on how good you are at drumming up business.

    Administrative Assistant (a.k.a., Secretary) - Doesn't require any specific degree, but you will probably be required to undergo on-the-job training, usually paid for by your company. There's a lot of these jobs out there, usually with vague names like "Program Coordinator" or "Project Manager" or whatnot.

    Other, less stable options to consider: Arts Administration (e.g., working in the accounting department of a ballet company or museum - usually can work your way up from an administrative assistant), IT (hard to get into without a Bachelor's in IT or Software Engineering, but pays very well and is stable), Paralegal (requires a 2-year associates degree, which you can get from a community college), barber/hairstylist (you'll always have clients and always have a job, but you won't be making bank).
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    My favorite English teacher was an IEI.
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    You have suggestive Se - use it. Embrace risk. It is exhillerating. Choose nothing boring. RISK. It will calm you. You will find yourself drawn towards it.

    Money comes from RISK.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saberstorm View Post
    You have suggestive Se - use it. Embrace risk. It is exhillerating. Choose nothing boring. RISK. It will calm you. You will find yourself drawn towards it.
    Drawn towards it =/= calms you down. It makes you feel alive, but it's really not calming...
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    Calms yes, to ready you for WAR!!!! You then release yourself into the chaos!!! Yippieee!

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    My favorite English teacher was an IEI.
    My favorite English teacher had sweet tits and wore low-cut blouses.

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    I know a good number of male INFps into web design, media design, light programming for games. Their creative skills and flamboyance are helpful, along with a certain detail orientedness they do tend to have while executing something they enjoy.

    Others are in academia. I actually know two INFps who are pursuing a PhD in economics. I would strongly advise against such choice.
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    I don't have any suggestions because we all have different areas of speciality, but as a general outline I'd pick a career that's 1. Not too social but not isolated.. i.e therapists, reporters, designers, pilots. 2. pays worth any stress, and suffient to support your lifestyle. 3. enjoyable and something you're proud to do.

    Two people have suggested teacher, I couldnt see myself as a teacher tbh... my mums ESE and it drains her out, it's too exhausting for the pay. i'd write it off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Awesome post, Baby. Good to see you again!


    I'm an esthetician, but I find that it's not really a fulfilling career. The whole "game plan" was to get my license in that in order to have something to fall back on, but I ended up excelling greatly in that field and & really emerging myself in it. Still, it's not something that I want to be doing my whole life.

    I think I'm either going to go into nursing or dental. I'm leaning towards dental atm, because the hours are so much better, plus you don't have to deal with poop.
    People's mouth isn't much better.... But I think you should be a star...

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    As odd as it sounds, I know multiple INFps that went into the IT industry. A lot of them seemed to go through ITT Tech. I am not sure why this is a pattern, but it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Awesome post, Baby. Good to see you again!


    I'm an esthetician, but I find that it's not really a fulfilling career. The whole "game plan" was to get my license in that in order to have something to fall back on, but I ended up excelling greatly in that field and & really emerging myself in it. Still, it's not something that I want to be doing my whole life.

    I think I'm either going to go into nursing or dental. I'm leaning towards dental atm, because the hours are so much better, plus you don't have to deal with poop.
    Thanks Starfall! I agree with hkkmr that you should be a star, lol. But dentistry is a pretty comfortable career. Nursing seems kind of stressful, to be honest.

    I grew up with stereotypical Asian parents with dreams of me going to the Ivy League to pursue Medicine or Engineering. I am IEI. This was a recipe for disaster. I don't consider myself unintelligent. But I simply found myself unable to muster any passion for those career options. I think I could make a decent doctor... if I actually wanted to commit to being a doctor. Which I don't. I wish I did so I could ease my folks' worries about me having a stable life and let them brag about me to their friends. But I just can't do it. Believe me, I've tried, and there are moments where I still try. The guilt from not being able to be pragmatic and follow a "useful" career path was often crippling. In that crucible of shame, I ended up losing site of the sort of things that did bring me joy: music, writing, art. My perception of what was viable career-wise became very narrow and constricted (Law school seemed to be the only acceptable option for someone who couldn't hack it in the hard sciences... and so that's what I told my parents I'd end up doing, even after I interned at a law office and discovered I despise lawyers). And I lost site of very decent career paths that would allow me to be happy: particularly arts administration/management. I would love to work with the Metropolitan Opera or other performing arts institution, even if I don't do so as a singer. Medical writing also wouldn't be too bad.

    This is probably a common bind people whose parents have different quadra value from theirs find themselves in. I left Socionics four years ago, but came back to it often to remind myself of the obvious: You can't please everyone. You are what you are. You life is what it is. There's no use beating yourself up over that which you can't change. The best approach is to be gentle.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baby View Post
    I grew up with stereotypical Asian parents with dreams of me going to the Ivy League to pursue Medicine or Engineering. I am IEI. This was a recipe for disaster. I don't consider myself unintelligent. But I simply found myself unable to muster any passion for those career options. I think I could make a decent doctor... if I actually wanted to commit to being a doctor. Which I don't. I wish I did so I could ease my folks' worries about me having a stable life and let them brag about me to their friends. But I just can't do it. Believe me, I've tried, and there are moments where I still try. The guilt from not being able to be pragmatic and follow a "useful" career path was often crippling. In that crucible of shame, I ended up losing site of the sort of things that did bring me joy: music, writing, art. My perception of what was viable career-wise became very narrow and constricted (Law school seemed to be the only acceptable option for someone who couldn't hack it in the hard sciences... and so that's what I told my parents I'd end up doing, even after I interned at a law office and discovered I despise lawyers). And I lost site of very decent career paths that would allow me to be happy: particularly arts administration/management. I would love to work with the Metropolitan Opera or other performing arts institution, even if I don't do so as a singer. Medical writing also wouldn't be too bad.

    This is probably a common bind people whose parents have different quadra value from theirs find themselves in. I left Socionics four years ago, but came back to it often to remind myself of the obvious: You can't please everyone. You are what you are. You life is what it is. There's no use beating yourself up over that which you can't change. The best approach is to be gentle.
    I identify so much with this, except substitute accounting for engineering. An IEI accountant, imagine that. >.< I went through the exact thing with law school too - working at a law firm made me feel sick. I've never had existential crises as big as when I worked there. I think Asian parents to tend to place a lot of expectations on their children, and that's really hard for IEIs to deal with - the burden of expectation and the people-pleasing tendency vs. individual expression. I hope one day to be an exception to the Asian parent mold...

    One of my friends recently posted this:

    Someone with an entrepreneurial spirit should start a consultancy business on teaching Asian mothers things like:

    1. Why 25 is too young to get married and have babies.
    2. Why 27 is too young to get married and have babies.
    3. Why at 30 it is still ok to not be married and not have babies.
    4. That it is not normal to insist that they move in with "you and your future family".
    5. That having your own room in your parent's house does not constitute having enough "personal space".
    6. That when we come home at 4am, chances are we have already eaten, and that now is not a good time to ask us where we've been, who we've seen and whether or not we're aware they've been waiting up for us.
    7. That spending all our holidays going overseas to see distant relatives we barely know is not really our idea of having a good time, and that if they REALLY were dying to see us, they'd spend THEIR holidays and come here
    8. That there are jobs out there that are not doctors, lawyers, accountants or investment bankers, and that people who do not hold these jobs do not wind up sweeping streets.
    9. That dishwashers are both useful and necessary appliances.

    I still have no idea job-wise though.
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    Ftr many dominant types (me included) hate accounting. Sure, I can do it, sure, I can force myself to go through accounting procedures in automaton mode. However even just thinking about having to do it every day for 9-10 hours can make me claustrophobic and panicky.
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    Yeah, go for dentistry..all my co-workers wish they had done something else.
    They even tell me to turn my major to something else, but...it's too late, too many credits towards nursing already. so. it's a crap job. too much drama/backstabbing co-workers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    Ftr many dominant types (me included) hate accounting. Sure, I can do it, sure, I can force myself to go through accounting procedures in automaton mode. However even just thinking about having to do it every day for 9-10 hours can make me claustrophobic and panicky.
    Translation: I'm in touch with my inner 7 and 1's can do this shit for me because they masturbate to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae View Post
    Translation: I'm in touch with my inner 7 and 1's can do this shit for me because they masturbate to it.
    Exactly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I relate to that a lot, Baby. I admit that I can get pretty down on myself about it. I'd definitely say that it's the root of my general angst now days. I wish I had the motivation & drive to go into boring yet 'useful' paths. At least dentistry is kind of interesting.
    From the number of threads about IEIs and finding the right career (I remember at least three others before this one), this seems to be a pretty common concern. Meditation and remember self-love (as narcissistic as that sounds) helps with a lot of the doubt and cuts through some of the confusion and noise. There's a lot of noise out there in the general society about careerism and materialism. Your own motivations and intuition can get lost in the cacophony of sensationalized news headlines and people who are unhappy with their lives. Are you thinking of becoming a dentist, or dental hygienist? The former is a pretty decent commitment, but not as tough as med school. I think it's a great idea. My dentist's office is a really pleasant place and it seems to be really comfortable lifestyle-wise.

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    I identify so much with this, except substitute accounting for engineering. An IEI accountant, imagine that. >.< I went through the exact thing with law school too - working at a law firm made me feel sick. I've never had existential crises as big as when I worked there. I think Asian parents to tend to place a lot of expectations on their children, and that's really hard for IEIs to deal with - the burden of expectation and the people-pleasing tendency vs. individual expression. I hope one day to be an exception to the Asian parent mold...

    One of my friends recently posted this:

    I still have no idea job-wise though.
    LOL! That list is great. Even as a dude, the part about getting married and having children applies - my mom is always going on about my future wife and kids.

    On one hand it's great to know I'm not alone. On the other hand, I hate that you had to go through that experience, too. That balancing act between self-expression and the people-pleasing tendency is definitely one that kills me. The best thing to do, really, is just be as honest as possible to your parents so at least you're running on a clear conscience. That long period of time (three years) where I was lying to them about planning to go to law school without any intention of doing so was like being in a prison of guilt and panic. Once I realized I had to be honest about what a hard time I was having, even though I knew they wanted me to be a prestige-winner for the family, it at least took away that particular source of anxiety (the guilt of having to lie/perpetuate this storyline). I also really want to make life easier on my own kids if I have them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Awesome post, Baby. Good to see you again!


    I'm an esthetician, but I find that it's not really a fulfilling career. The whole "game plan" was to get my license in that in order to have something to fall back on, but I ended up excelling greatly in that field and & really emerging myself in it. Still, it's not something that I want to be doing my whole life.

    I think I'm either going to go into nursing or dental. I'm leaning towards dental atm, because the hours are so much better, plus you don't have to deal with poop.
    My sister wanted to go into dental also, but couldn't even get into a spot to test into the program at her college, even though she worked in a dentist's office for about year beforehand. Nursing was wide open though for some reason, and she easily tested into it. She just finished and is an RN, and I think it's the CNAs and LPNs that end up with the jobs nobody else wants to do. She's a beta NF btw, and was previously in school for art education but decided the education part wasn't for her.

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    Scenario writing for games.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post


    Yeah, I want to go for dental hygienist. I already know that I don't have the kind of commitment it takes for med school, plus the job just seems a lot more stressful. One of my clients is a hygienist and she often tells me how much she loves her job and that if she ever had to choose a career all over again, she would without a doubt, stay a hygienist.



    Ah, sorry to hear that. You can always look on the brighter side of things, though. There are so many different things you can go into with nursing. The whole reason I was considering becoming an RN was because of the career I have now. RN's can work in med spas, and they can also preform Botox injections & fillers, which I am very interested in. I'm fascinated with the human face & have a good eye for that sort of thing.
    Yeah true, but there's so much competition for the great jobs-- I would love to work in pre-op and post-op and be doing medspa type of stuff, but..there's just too many medspas in my area and they're all going under-- all competing for the few people around here who can afford to spend a day getting facials/botox, etc.
    I'd have to move to California or New York to actually make money.

    My cousin is doing dental hygiene and absolutely loves it. She only works 4 days a week, makes over $50k a year.
    choices..choices.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HereNowTHIS View Post
    You are what you are. You life is what it is. There's no use beating yourself up over that which you can't change. The best approach is to be gentle.
    Yes x1000. An outstanding and useful philosophy. ^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by octo View Post
    Yeah, I also need someone to tell me what field to go in to. I like the idea of being someone's PA, I like organising and logistics.

    I don't think I'd do well in a corporate environment, I can socialise but I find it very difficult to maintain constant sociability and fake interest in a conversation when I really just want to go home and veg out. Is this a problem for you other IEIs?
    Absolutely.

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    I have a question, what isn't the right career for you? to decide what is the right career for you.
    good bye

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    This thread is a productivity code, thank you all
    so far, jobs or careers for an INFp means:

    1. getting funds for survival
    what this simply means is to 'work' hour sof the day or night or week and get paid. It might inovlve challenges, routine, boring monotnous repetitive schedule too, or if the INFp is lucky there could be presence of other souls at the work place who would create internal voyages of discovery, and evolve him or her at the end.

    2. applying skills and the INFp-ishness, bcos u r an INFp
    this is not work. and this might not be something thats aimed for getting paid. It is an act that pours out like rain or snow...
    - Song writing
    - Applying knowledge from personal experiences for upliftment and enhancement of one soul, most times a stranger
    - Travelling to new destinations / experiences
    - Evaluating relationships past/present/future and releasing emotional baggage in form of a therapist

    3. blending into the environment or habitat
    - blending is with a little help from intuition, moving together with immediate family/workplace/community towards the goal (physical/spiritual/emotional)
    - this will summon the INFpish traits of working along with people on a one-to-one level and as groups all the while focused on the common compass
    - it helps or has the potential to help the INFp with self reflection, setting and acheiving personal goals so when the rainy day comes, theres little or nothing to be worried about for him and her folks too

    It is important to have some sort of footing in the planes of an INFp's biographic cosmos.
    there seems to be no limits to achievements
    but then, where are the stairs and why does the mirror play small voices?

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    Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.

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    I found an old post of mine, from another site, and it reminded me of this thread.

    I took a career aptitude quiz (485 questions) and my top jobs were:

    Quote:
    YOUR TOP 3 IDEAL JOBS
    We have compiled based on your personality profile the top 3 jobs most suited to you:

    1. Funeral director <--
    2. PERSONAL CARE AND SERVICE OCCUPATIONS
    3. Medical Laboratory Technician
    Counseling/Psychotherapy was also very high on my list.


    I'm sick and can't sleep so nothing better to do.

    "When I ought to be thinking of heaven he will nail me to earth"

     




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    Quote Originally Posted by William View Post
    I have seen INFps excel in business. Their Ni and ability to predict problems is worth lots of money, and they generally play the power games extremely well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by staccato du mal View Post
    some infps are ok but some of them dont have any problems and start whining about not being able to find women to tie them up then i am like shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hh
    It's obviously a solliciation for you to tie them up! INFP flirting!





    can you tie me up too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    It's obviously a solliciation for you to tie them up! INFP flirting!





    can you tie me up too?



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    I know an INFp librarian.

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