What function are interpersonal intentions and how to find?

[Dioklecian]

What function are interpersonal intentions and how do you know what those of others are regarding you?

A couple of daysago I was waiting for the metro when a young couple came by. I liked the girl so I guess it somewhat showed (she was ISTJ IMO), so out of the blue as soon as they get near to where I was standing she started to kiss the guy, and then she pushed the 2 of them and they displaced me (I moved out of the way as their faces were glued to each other). They continued to kiss no stop until he got off the train. She got off shortly after him. They sat in a chair directly in front of me. I am not sure what happend there, why would she start kissing him immediately as she noticed that I was intrigued by her looks? And then pretty much pushing the two of them into me and displacing me?!

Was it just exhibitionism?

[KSpin]

Deserves a solid standing stillness in my opinion. Have no idea why she would do that, I'd have just muttered "get a room" or something.

[Expat]

What function are interpersonal intentions and how do you know what those of others are regarding you?

At face value, that's or , depending precisely on what is meant.

Was it just exhibitionism?

No, I think it's just your being self-centred. More likely she barely even noticed you.

[redbaron]

What function are interpersonal intentions and how do you know what those of others are regarding you?

At face value, that's or , depending precisely on what is meant.

Was it just exhibitionism?

No, I think it's just your being self-centred. More likely she barely even noticed you.

Probably right but for what it's worth, I might have thought the same thing, that somehow the timing of that was too coincidental. It IS odd if you ask me and it does sound like she saw him looking at her. But I tend to over-interpret things like that. I'm always thinking there must be some meaning to people's actions when often there is none or it's not what I'm guessing it might be.

[eunice]

Maybe she did notice that you are looking at her and you are probably not the first to check her out. She probably had experiences where strangers hit on her as well. Therefore, in order to prevent you from approaching her, she decided to use the indirect way to show you that she is taken.

[FDG]

Here the right interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

[KSpin]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

[FDG]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

it's just that i have kissed boys multiple times in the metro

[KSpin]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

it's just that i have kissed boys multiple times in the metro

And did you check first to make sure there were no old ladies who would complain?

[leckysupport]

Either what Expat/fdg said or she was irritated by you looking at her or they where turned on by having you watching them.

[FDG]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

it's just that i have kissed boys multiple times in the metro

And did you check first to make sure there were no old ladies who would complain?

My passion for boys is too intense, besides a 3-some with an old woman is never to be rejected! However, the other guy always watched.

[cracka]

If she had any thought of you at all when this was going on she woulda looked at you at some point, probably more than once or twice. If she did then it could be what anyone here has said, if she didn't... you just noticed her and she was thinking about jumping her man around the same time they walked by ya.

[implied]

i like fdg + expat's suggestion. i doubt she noticed you as much as you thought she did, and yeah, you're probably being a little self-centered hah.

[Expat]

You might guess'em and you'll know never even know if you ever did.

Yes, that's the main point.

We can't be sure of anything; my view, which is close to FDG's, is that Dio was barely within her "radar" of attention. But perhaps she saw Dio, thought he was hot and wanted him, and thought, "oh well, I will just have to make do with my stupid boyfriend, why don't I ever get a Greek god like this guy?"

But it's impossible to know either way, so it's a dead-end.

[Rocket]

Hmmm.. OK now for an type assessment.

She noticed you but wasn't interested in you apart from what she could get out of it herself. Seems an "i'm too cool for you" in your face message - you may have other things but you don't have me ...and you ain't ever gonna get me..... uhmmm unless you're willing to fight my boyfriend for me that is ... lol ... games women play.

[Dioklecian]

What function are interpersonal intentions and how do you know what those of others are regarding you?

At face value, that's or , depending precisely on what is meant.

Was it just exhibitionism?

No, I think it's just your being self-centred. More likely she barely even noticed you.

That seems unlikely because she explicitly moved the two of them in my direction and if I hadn't moved out of the way they would have been on top of me, so to speak There was LOOOTS of space around by the way.

[Dioklecian]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

it's just that i have kissed boys multiple times in the metro

FDH, what is your gender if I may ask?

[KSpin]

Here the "right" interpretation:

she wanted to kiss her boy,
so she looked around to see if there were old ladies that would have complained
she saw there was only you
so she proceeded

So glad you're here to set us all straight.

it's just that i have kissed boys multiple times in the metro

FDH, what is your gender if I may ask?

Lol. He's a he. Assuming you mean FDG not FDH.

[Dioklecian]

If she had any thought of you at all when this was going on she woulda looked at you at some point, probably more than once or twice. If she did then it could be what anyone here has said, if she didn't... you just noticed her and she was thinking about jumping her man around the same time they walked by ya.

Well the thing is I didn't walk by them, they walked me. They were walking fine, it was clear they were a couple of some kind but the were not even holding hands until they so me, and then all of a suden she starts kissing him (he was ENTP by the way) while they were walking!