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ESI to me "This is the real pasta, that everyone uses - not that genetically jacked bullshit pasta you like" "I said you're a loser for sittin' there and jackin' off to the news all day" "That's why you don't get laid... See, why I don't get laid is because women just see me and automatically orgasm - boom - it's over. It's terrible" |
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Blog Entries: 47 | This is a failed conversation: xxx: hey zzz: yo xxx: what goes on? zzz: short story or long story xxx: long works if ud rather zzz: well xxx: ... xxx: ? zzz: i was moving something there's a number of things going on really kind of "every level" or every layer of stuff: thinking about my spiritual/world view, thinking about how to organize my life thinking about my career thinking about the kind of person I want to be and how I'm failing or succeeding and then ther is of course schoolwork. and what I'm doing today and tomorrow. etc xxx: ok...? zzz: that's "what goes on" xxx: ok...? zzz: What does that mean? xxx: it means it was very vague and i thus have nothing to say lol zzz: It's not vague it's exactly what's happening. But this seems to be xxx: ok zzz: one of those things where we don't understand each other. xxx: can u not like...categorize our relationship please cuz i think that it limits growth zzz: How do you want me to react when you say "ok...?" xxx: nvm |
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......it is........ but, for the record, it's particularly this person. It seems to be dependent on her mood. I asked explained what I said later, and she had no response - I asked what she was doing again and she said she was bothering her friends - why - because it was fun. She's just very, very far apart from me, and sometimes we have such bad communication that we can't maintain anything longer than 2 minutes. She is so strongly Fe creative, Fe subtype, that when I say things to her that are "neutral" or "blank /sans fe", she doesn't know how to react.... and then we both continue to explain how we see it this way, and the other person is doing something totally different, etc. (When we try to discuss it). I have better conversations with many INFps, honestly. But I think this person is about as far as it gets, in terms of the difference between myself and someone else, psychologically. PS: why do we keep interacting with each other? We're in the same circles some, and we both generally see each other as 'good people'. So we don't particularly dislike each other, but, we just can't function, at all, sometimes. It's maximum stalling, particularly when we can't even 'discuss' the problem as to why we can't converse in the first place. No traction. |
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cute that she doesn't want you to categorize your relationship because it limits growth. I agree with her but at the same time I thought you answered the question about what was going on with you quite nicely. | |
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Hm, I was just thinking how that is so far from myself. I'm not interested in 'boys' either, but try and 'take control' and that just makes me want to wiggle out of your grasp... just because I can. I don't like being directed.
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For the record, when I said how it seems like this is something where we don't understand each other -- I've tried to explain in the past, at its basic level, us being different in terms of Fe and Te (although not in socionics terms). More so just explaining how we go about things differently, basically. I was trying to make a reference to it in that conversation, but, there seemed to be no want to really go in that direction, so, I just let it go and we stopped talking in essence. Quote:
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Blog Entries: 47 | True story: IEI: would u like to be involved in hall council? Me: Imperial Commander [UDP] Me: i won't take anything less. IEI: haha thats fine...we have someone who is the "shoulder angel" Me: I was hmm Me: originally thinking about some sort of a spy position IEI: haha sounds legit to me Me: i don't know Me: whatdo you think my role should be? Me: I was busy in a meeting last time, that's why I wasn't there. Me: didn't get back until 11 IEI: "the voice of reason" thats u lol Me: hm Me: why do you say that IEI: because ur always reasonable...sometimes to an impressibely unimaginative point Indeed. The conversion continues... Me: That does suite me. IEI: yup, i told u IEI: so do u wana be on hall council? lol Me: um Me: what do you need? IEI: ? Me: what Me: actually needs Me: um Me: what sort of person do you need on hall council? Me: is there anything that particularly needs to be done or addressed, or does it not really matter Me: I figure I'll just ask if there is like a glaring need, first, before just choosing something nice. IEI: idk ur just more serious and i think that u would be a good presence on hall council...liek u wanna see stuff get done...thats kinda ur personality i think...more focused so...ur not wasting my life lol...u wanna see good things for the hall but are aware that u cant just sit there and expect them to magically happen. it doesnt matter what u call urself tho as long as u show up and contribute Me: oh, ok. Me: Yeah Me: i'll do that. Me: think of a cool and fitting name or title for me and Me: I'll do it. Me: I'm not very creative, so, i'll leave that to you. IEI: lol why cant u be the voice of reason? i think thats cute...or u can be the roya vizier...thats what i was gonna be if i didnt win lol Me: hmm Me: if you'd like. IEI: haha noooo what would uuuuu like? Me: Well Me: let's come up with some alternates Me: voice of reason is a little bit cliche because I used to know someone else who also used that as a reference to himself. Me: but that's just me. Me: um IEI: uhhh yea its cliche...thats why its cute Me: alright Me: we'll go with that for now, then. IEI: lol its ok if u dont like it im just letting u know it was intentionally cliche Me: Yeah |
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