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Old 01-24-2009, 12:09 AM   #41 (permalink)
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So you're incapable of detecting sarcasm.
Run with it.

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Old 01-24-2009, 01:36 AM   #42 (permalink)
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ESI to me


"This is the real pasta, that everyone uses - not that genetically jacked bullshit pasta you like"

"I said you're a loser for sittin' there and jackin' off to the news all day"
"That's why you don't get laid... See, why I don't get laid is because women just see me and automatically orgasm - boom - it's over. It's terrible"
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Old 01-24-2009, 06:07 PM   #43 (permalink)
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"This is the real pasta, that everyone uses - not that genetically jacked bullshit pasta you like"

"I said you're a loser for sittin' there and jackin' off to the news all day"
"That's why you don't get laid... See, why I don't get laid is because women just see me and automatically orgasm - boom - it's over. It's terrible"
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Old 01-25-2009, 11:10 PM   #44 (permalink)
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Stop being mean. Enfps don't exist, duh.
No, no its the other way around. ISTp's don't exist, im pretty much real.
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Old 02-19-2009, 04:12 PM   #45 (permalink)
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This is a failed conversation:


xxx:
hey
zzz: yo
xxx: what goes on?
zzz: short story or long story
xxx: long works if ud rather
zzz: well
xxx: ...
xxx: ?
zzz: i was moving something
there's a number of things going on really

kind of "every level" or every layer of stuff: thinking about my spiritual/world view, thinking about how to organize my life
thinking about my career
thinking about the kind of person I want to be
and how I'm failing or succeeding
and then ther is of course schoolwork.
and what I'm doing today
and tomorrow.
etc
xxx: ok...?
zzz: that's "what goes on"
xxx: ok...?
zzz: What does that mean?
xxx: it means it was very vague and i thus have nothing to say lol
zzz: It's not vague
it's exactly what's happening.
But this seems to be
xxx: ok
zzz: one of those things where we don't understand each other.
xxx: can u not like...categorize our relationship please cuz i think that it limits growth
zzz: How do you want me to react when you say
"ok...?"
xxx: nvm
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Old 02-19-2009, 04:24 PM   #46 (permalink)
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lol was that between an LSE and an IEI?
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Old 02-19-2009, 05:04 PM   #47 (permalink)
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......it is........ but, for the record, it's particularly this person.

It seems to be dependent on her mood. I asked explained what I said later, and she had no response - I asked what she was doing again and she said she was bothering her friends - why - because it was fun.

She's just very, very far apart from me, and sometimes we have such bad communication that we can't maintain anything longer than 2 minutes. She is so strongly Fe creative, Fe subtype, that when I say things to her that are "neutral" or "blank /sans fe", she doesn't know how to react.... and then we both continue to explain how we see it this way, and the other person is doing something totally different, etc. (When we try to discuss it).

I have better conversations with many INFps, honestly. But I think this person is about as far as it gets, in terms of the difference between myself and someone else, psychologically.


PS: why do we keep interacting with each other? We're in the same circles some, and we both generally see each other as 'good people'. So we don't particularly dislike each other, but, we just can't function, at all, sometimes. It's maximum stalling, particularly when we can't even 'discuss' the problem as to why we can't converse in the first place. No traction.
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......it is........ but, for the record, it's particularly this person.

It seems to be dependent on her mood. I asked explained what I said later, and she had no response - I asked what she was doing again and she said she was bothering her friends - why - because it was fun.

She's just very, very far apart from me, and sometimes we have such bad communication that we can't maintain anything longer than 2 minutes. She is so strongly Fe creative, Fe subtype, that when I say things to her that are "neutral" or "blank /sans fe", she doesn't know how to react.... and then we both continue to explain how we see it this way, and the other person is doing something totally different, etc. (When we try to discuss it).

I have better conversations with many INFps, honestly. But I think this person is about as far as it gets, in terms of the difference between myself and someone else, psychologically.


PS: why do we keep interacting with each other? We're in the same circles some, and we both generally see each other as 'good people'. So we don't particularly dislike each other, but, we just can't function, at all, sometimes. It's maximum stalling, particularly when we can't even 'discuss' the problem as to why we can't converse in the first place. No traction.
This is so interesting. What subtype are you?

cute that she doesn't want you to categorize your relationship because it limits growth. I agree with her but at the same time I thought you answered the question about what was going on with you quite nicely.
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udp .. i think that girl is a leech .. and didn't find any blood to suck on.
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How was that even a convo? "ok" followed by "...ok?" followed by "?" followed by "..." followed by a really random question of you not to define the relationship. W-t-f
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How was that even a convo? "ok" followed by "...ok?" followed by "?" followed by "..." followed by a really random question of you not to define the relationship. W-t-f
yeah it's all bullshit
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How was that even a convo? "ok" followed by "...ok?" followed by "?" followed by "..." followed by a really random question of you not to define the relationship. W-t-f
I didn't understand it either. Maybe it was all the zzz's which put me in wrong the frame of mind to read it properly.
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I didn't understand it either. Maybe it was all the zzz's which put me in wrong the frame of mind to read it properly.
ok...?
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ok...?
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If someone were to use that conversation as a basis to learn English, they'd think the language sucked.
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If someone were to use that conversation as a basis to learn English, they'd think the language sucked.
Where wear ware we're where?
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A beta victim, EIE

i like older guys
Something about, a man.
A man, taking control.
Boys don't interest me
I'm definitely a tease. And i know how to drive a man crazy.
But It's just so i can possibly find the one to really give it to me.
I want to be near raped
I'm independent and such and a strong woman. But That's half to weed out the lame bunch.



Love this...just fyi
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Old 02-19-2009, 08:57 PM   #58 (permalink)
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Hm, I was just thinking how that is so far from myself. I'm not interested in 'boys' either, but try and 'take control' and that just makes me want to wiggle out of your grasp... just because I can. I don't like being directed.
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This is so interesting. What subtype are you?

cute that she doesn't want you to categorize your relationship because it limits growth. I agree with her but at the same time I thought you answered the question about what was going on with you quite nicely.
Te, it seems thus far. Like I said, it's more her way. Anyhow, when INFp Fes get "cranky" or "wound up", they stand out as the most sheerly incompatible types. I know a male and female Fe subtype INFp and it's kind of similar. They have an almost "rigid" form of being Fe creative that is annoying. It's almost forceful, but still very different from EIEs. It's a combination of internal nervousness and desparately seeking to have emotional stimulation or effect on the person they are talking to - that's how it feels when they get that way with me. To them, I probably seem like I'm being a really big asshole or jerk because I am REFUSING to react to their emotional leads, or, perhaps like that above conversation shows: simply stating something that is not particlarly emotionally biased in either way. It's specific in terms of what is going on, but totally vague - as she said - in terms of my emotional "feelings" about what is going on. So I can see how that aspect of it may be frustrating to her.

For the record, when I said how it seems like this is something where we don't understand each other -- I've tried to explain in the past, at its basic level, us being different in terms of Fe and Te (although not in socionics terms). More so just explaining how we go about things differently, basically. I was trying to make a reference to it in that conversation, but, there seemed to be no want to really go in that direction, so, I just let it go and we stopped talking in essence.

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udp .. i think that girl is a leech .. and didn't find any blood to suck on.
She's alright, actually. She just gets emotionally reactive sometimes. Othertimes, I'll say nearly the same sort of thing and she'll be fine with it. I think she was just being weird today, more so.

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How was that even a convo? "ok" followed by "...ok?" followed by "?" followed by "..." followed by a really random question of you not to define the relationship. W-t-f
It wasn't. She initiated the conversation, and that was the length of our interaction, essentially. So I mean, I'm not disappointed or surprised. She was looking for a certain kind of interaction, I wasn't going to provide her with it, and things just ended - that's really what happened. I wouldn't say she was being a leech, just sort of doing her own thing.

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Hm, I was just thinking how that is so far from myself. I'm not interested in 'boys' either, but try and 'take control' and that just makes me want to wiggle out of your grasp... just because I can. I don't like being directed.
"Hold on loosely, but don't let go"... yeah?

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True story:


IEI:
would u like to be involved in hall council?
Me: Imperial Commander [UDP]
Me: i won't take anything less.
IEI: haha thats fine...we have someone who is the "shoulder angel"
Me: I was hmm
Me: originally thinking about some sort of a spy position
IEI: haha sounds legit to me
Me: i don't know
Me: whatdo you think my role should be?
Me: I was busy in a meeting last time, that's why I wasn't there.
Me: didn't get back until 11
IEI: "the voice of reason" thats u lol
Me: hm
Me: why do you say that
IEI: because ur always reasonable...sometimes to an impressibely unimaginative point lol jk


Indeed. The conversion continues...


Me
: That does suite me.
IEI: yup, i told u
IEI: so do u wana be on hall council? lol
Me: um
Me: what do you need?
IEI: ?
Me: what
Me: actually needs
Me: um
Me: what sort of person do you need on hall council?
Me: is there anything that particularly needs to be done or addressed, or does it not really matter
Me: I figure I'll just ask if there is like a glaring need, first, before just choosing something nice.
IEI: idk ur just more serious and i think that u would be a good presence on hall council...liek u wanna see stuff get done...thats kinda ur personality i think...more focused so...ur not wasting my life lol...u wanna see good things for the hall but are aware that u cant just sit there and expect them to magically happen. it doesnt matter what u call urself tho as long as u show up and contribute
Me: oh, ok.
Me: Yeah
Me: i'll do that.
Me: think of a cool and fitting name or title for me and
Me: I'll do it.
Me: I'm not very creative, so, i'll leave that to you.
IEI: lol why cant u be the voice of reason? i think thats cute...or u can be the roya vizier...thats what i was gonna be if i didnt win lol
Me: hmm
Me: if you'd like.
IEI: haha noooo what would uuuuu like?
Me: Well
Me: let's come up with some alternates
Me: voice of reason is a little bit cliche because I used to know someone else who also used that as a reference to himself.
Me: but that's just me.
Me: um
IEI: uhhh yea its cliche...thats why its cute
Me: alright
Me: we'll go with that for now, then.
IEI: lol its ok if u dont like it im just letting u know it was intentionally cliche
Me: Yeah
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