This has got to be one of the most curious, and most scary things about people. What am I talking about? It has to do with not realizing how you are coming across to other people, and how you are affecting them. Furthermore - what it feels like to me - not wanting to realize how you are actually coming off to them. If not "not caring about it", then, a sense the person doesn't understand that...

because each person is lopsided psychologically and overfocuses on certain things.

dual relationships aren't really anything amazing, i see them more as having a 'canceling' effect on the glaring lopsidedness and over-focus of each person's psychological nature.

ESF and INT
EST and INF
etc

Those are huge differences in pyschological orientation, huge differences in what you are likely to over-focus on


A lot of what makes a relationship...

From Eunice's signature.

A curious thing in...

I was going to write the title as "socionics lament" or "lament of/for socionics".


It is interesting now, what I see, in regard to socionics. It is a sense of seeing the mechanics, the lines between, connecting, dividing, other people. But in a very raw, unemotional, and even un-logical way. You don't really question the logic of why rain falls or trees grow as they do - it seems perfectly natural. And that's how I feel about socionics now. But it is an understanding...

Nice.

I look forward to having a nice relationship someday. I'd want to take lots of pictures of us together, so, I hope she'd be up for that.