Mirage; Yes. An Adequate Name

thePirate · 01-26-2010, 06:47 AM

it seems to be like a good relation, all attractive and appealing. it is just me or are these relationships excruciating? it's been defined as harmless and peaceful; gotdamnit what the fuck. mirage sank me into an abyss of depression for about a year. MIRAGE HAS ME PULLING AT MY HAIR WTFING EVERY 15 MINUTES. Can someone clarify how this is better than supervision?

thehotelambush · 01-26-2010, 07:05 AM

Well, it is complementary on the 2nd functions. Sorry it sucks so bad...

Morcheeba · 01-26-2010, 09:42 AM

I have always found mirage relations to be strange. They seem interesting in some respects, but I always have the tendency to want to change the person. I get annoyed with their sweetness and narrowmindedness. Also, their dual seeking function is fairly boring to me; and I typically find these types of people in administrative jobs which to me equals boring.

JuJu · 02-01-2010, 02:02 AM

Mirage relations require a lot of understanding and (in my experience) upkeep... There are a lot of minor misunderstandings.

Things will be going well with a mirage relation, and then--suddenly, in my case EIE-ESI--one of us will say something that will totally dumbfound the other... Prompting something akin to "WTF?!"

The benefit to these relations is that conflicts do not last long at all, and neither party holds a grudge.

Frankly, I like these relations as much as semi-duality, if not more. (In my case, I've found that I get along with ESIs, generally, less well than I get along with LIIs; however, I tend to be more attracted to them.)

Bardia · 02-01-2010, 03:22 AM

I've had one good EIE friend. I really liked hanging out with him. It was always a lot of fun. My only problem with him was some of his friends. He had a few beta female friends that were really rude to a lot of nice people that didn't deserve it. While he wasn't himself rude he never spoke up or did anything about it either. Including when they were semi-rude to me. And I really can't stand it when people just keep their mouths shut when they should speak up.

Jarno · 02-01-2010, 08:08 PM

I'm not into mirage friendships and relationships anymore.

01-26-2010, 06:47 AM	#1 (permalink)
thePirate Lost One Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Pinocchios Nightmares Sociotype: Fe-IEI Posts: 1,416	Mirage; Yes. An Adequate Name it seems to be like a good relation, all attractive and appealing. it is just me or are these relationships excruciating? it's been defined as harmless and peaceful; gotdamnit what the fuck. mirage sank me into an abyss of depression for about a year. MIRAGE HAS ME PULLING AT MY HAIR WTFING EVERY 15 MINUTES. Can someone clarify how this is better than supervision?

01-26-2010, 09:42 AM	#3 (permalink)
Morcheeba Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 627 Blog Entries: 1	I have always found mirage relations to be strange. They seem interesting in some respects, but I always have the tendency to want to change the person. I get annoyed with their sweetness and narrowmindedness. Also, their dual seeking function is fairly boring to me; and I typically find these types of people in administrative jobs which to me equals boring. __________________ EIE 4w5

02-01-2010, 02:02 AM	#4 (permalink)
JuJu Illustrious Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: New Haven Posts: 2,574	Mirage relations require a lot of understanding and (in my experience) upkeep... There are a lot of minor misunderstandings. Things will be going well with a mirage relation, and then--suddenly, in my case EIE-ESI--one of us will say something that will totally dumbfound the other... Prompting something akin to "WTF?!" The benefit to these relations is that conflicts do not last long at all, and neither party holds a grudge. Frankly, I like these relations as much as semi-duality, if not more. (In my case, I've found that I get along with ESIs, generally, less well than I get along with LIIs; however, I tend to be more attracted to them.) __________________ ENFj www.socionicsworkshop.com

02-01-2010, 03:22 AM	#5 (permalink)
Bardia Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 580	I've had one good EIE friend. I really liked hanging out with him. It was always a lot of fun. My only problem with him was some of his friends. He had a few beta female friends that were really rude to a lot of nice people that didn't deserve it. While he wasn't himself rude he never spoke up or did anything about it either. Including when they were semi-rude to me. And I really can't stand it when people just keep their mouths shut when they should speak up. __________________ ISFj ESI 1w9 sp/so "You're getting older, and you'll see that life isn't like your fairy tales. The world is a cruel place. And you'll learn that, even if it hurts."

02-01-2010, 08:08 PM	#6 (permalink)
Jarno Senior member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Netherlands Posts: 3,715	I'm not into mirage friendships and relationships anymore. __________________ ILI -Te

01-26-2010, 07:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
thehotelambush Illustrious Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 3,870	Well, it is complementary on the 2nd functions. Sorry it sucks so bad...

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