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Originally Posted by Diana  You're sending me mixed messages, Melinda. You seem rather particular about which opinions are okay to express and which ones are not. What if I give you the wrong one? You tell me I'm missing the point, but maybe that's just it, you're looking for a point when there isn't one. Your friends are more than likely just having fun, a name got associated with you and stuck, and became a running joke. No plots or malicious intent, or evil ploys against you with their Fe. There is no reason for it, it's just playing around.
The alternative of course is that none of them like you and are making fun of you behind your back. They might even be plotting your murder as we speak. One can never know. |
sorry diana, i was a bit short with you before. you said you didn't understand why sth like that had bothered me. well, i don't know either, it's possibly type related, but the fact is that it did bother me at first. i was asking whether it was Fe - people answered "yes", than i was wondering if it's related to a particular type (question), and how to go about dealing with it(question)
This is actually a very good friend of mine and i've never said "there are plots" or whatever she's working on, but i know she has this tendency and i don't want this thing to get in the middle of this friendship. so i'm doing my part and looking for ways to deal with it since i'm pretty sure it's sth that will happen again. I'm only bothered momentarily, but even then, i thought: why not ask other people about it? Maybe they can offer socionics explanations i could use to understand my friend's actions and my reactions to them. Does this make sense? cheers