Originally Posted by FDG

That's right: the right way to do it, would simply be to do it gently without asking, so that she can't get angry for the fact that she has said no

Originally Posted by jewels

I agree. I've never needed to slap a guy so far, but in that situation, I just might.

However, the couple of ESTps I've gone out w/ were really respectful and I never had a problem. I went out w/ one once (and the conversation wasn't going well) and he started trying to sell himself by using Se...such as "girls like to be protected.I can protect you. If someone pinched your ass I would beat him up." This was during dinner...lol....and said w/o an ounce of kidding around. I was so uncomfortable...though I'm sure an INFp would have been like *swooon*. I was more like uh...luckily I don't live in the ghetto anymore and I've never had someone pinch my ass so I'm good, but thanks for the offer....

Originally Posted by Sirena

lol But it's a game, all a game. Things aren't that black and white for me. And I'm not saying it was all a big manipulative scheme on my part. Not at all! It's just that sometimes I need someone like that to help me decide I actually did want it all along. My "no" could mean I lack assertiveness or I'm over-thinking the consequences or whatever, so thank God for someone taking over and making shit happen! The point is that he did know I wanted it and that I needed him to act that way and he did.

I'm not saying I would let anybody walk up to me and stick their tongue down my throat! lol

But I do see how that wouldn't work for some people, Allie.

Originally Posted by glamourama

I wouldn't mind it at all. I probably would not be dancing with somebody whom I didn't want to kiss me in the first place.